Discuss with your husband first as it’s his mum and I reckon if he speaks to her about it she will take it a lot better c
I’ve struggled with this same issue with my parents. It’s hard but I’ve had to stay consistent & create that boundary with them. I’m really trying to set the tone that even if it’s “not a big deal” to them - they need to respect our wishes when it comes to our child. Stay strong mama! 🩷 you know what’s best for your baby 🫶🏼
@Nisha see my partner just said “text her if you want” 🥲he will be avoiding the same confrontation that I am lol
Ooo okay that’s a tough one then maybe put in the message that it’s you and partner rather than just it coming from you xo
If someone suffers from cold sores they wouldn’t be kissing my baby at all! Ask your husband to tell her
Wait… you’ve not allowed your mil to kiss her granddaughter for 9 months…. If she has a cold sore sure, I agree, but I think otherwise you’re probably being a tad over the top… unpopular opinion but 🤷🏻♀️
I’d ask my husband to deal with it. It’s his family. I deal with my side of the family and he deals with his. May be better coming from him. I would definitely want something to be said though.
@Emma totally agree. That is DEFINITELY an unpopular opinion
Being the person I am I’d deffo text🤣 xx