What’s wrong with me

Why do all my friends leave? I don’t know what I keep doing wrong. I’ve found connections on here that are soul tying and they still leave. 😞 what am I doing wrong? I wish I was better. I feel so alone and isolated.

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You have to let them know how you feel, they might not have meant to create that distance from you, that can be the case sometimes. Nothing is wrong with you. Feel free to message me.

Same girl, I like to think people are just busy and get caught up in their lives. Don’t take it personally. The right ones stay!

I’ve tried reaching out numerous times just to let them know I’m thinking of them, ask about the family. The only time I get a response is when I straight up ask if we’re even friends and they say well it felt mean to leave you on read but I’m just busy. Which I understand, we all are. But I went from talking daily to nothing literally overnight

I try to think the same but in this situation I know it’s not the case. They’re just trying to get rid of me tbh. I wish any friend would stay.

Aw I don’t know where you’re located but feel free to msg me whenever!

if I wasn’t so embarrassed I would

Nothing to be embarrassed about 😊

I have soooo many chats on here & people disappear. Sometimes I make posts to make friends & those same people comment for me to message them & I see we already had a chat going but they ghosted. If I mention it to people or post about it I’m always told they’re moms they’re busy but like why try to make friends if u have 0 time for friends??? I understand 100% how ur feeling. I even try to meetup & it never works out so now I just make long distance friends & I have like 2 active friends now but it sucks knowing I’ll probably never meet them.

Message me girl

in our community

Bestie where are you?!

Hey I really need to make some friends being a mom is so lonely. Distance does not matter to me (I can’t see waves)

If you DO NOT buy things second hand, it is mainly because:

Answer only if it applies to you.

Love my husband. Love my kids. But…

I’m 32 weeks pregnant with twins. I take care of my 4 yo, 2 yo, and 1 yo. I barely have energy to stand anymore. I cuddle and watch movies with my kids all day at this point. My husband is less pushy in this pregnancy in wanting to be touched or love up on me. But I feel more like a tool these days more than ever. He gets frustrated (not to a crazy degree) but I can tell he huffs because he’s probably sexually frustrated from me not wanting to be touched on. (my boobs are super sensitive atm) I love having the babies part, but the pregnancy also now has me feeling like a baby making machine. And a tool with big boobs made for touches and my husbands pleasure. Ofc I love my husband and kids, but with my hormones all wack, it really doesn’t feel the same when you’re not turned on. It’s so hard for me to get turned on. I’m uncomfortable all the time in my own body. Babies moving in there all the time. My children cuddle me all day but get rowdy at the end of the day, so I end up getting touched out and I can get irritable when my husband tries to touch me affectionately. He doesn’t have the tact necessary for me right now, when I wish he wanted to go in for a normal comforting hug I’m let down more often than not, there is almost always a boob groping involved as well. I tried to just let him touch me last night so he could get it out of his system, but he could tell I felt tense. Wish my boobs weren’t such an uncomfortable place for me to be touched. Idk why I’m making this post. Probably just to vent. Wish men were equally as emotionally intelligent as women. Wish I didn’t feel like I still owe him something because he’s picking up a lot of the house load and yet I still need to ask him to do more before these twins arrive. He’s tired every day when he comes home, so he takes a shower sometimes works out, and helps get the kids to bed. So it’s a struggle getting him to help any further than that. Weekends are my only time to get to him. But it’s a struggle to find time on weekends too. I know if he wanted to he would. But there’s just no drive.

Maternity leave Employment rights?

I have 6 weeks left of work and they have completely changed my job spec including my job title and all my responsibilities, they have done this ahead of advertising my maternity cover apparently to fit business needs which I am fine with but i explained as long as it doesn’t effect me before I go. They have now turned round and said they want me to do the training for it before I go and want me to sign a variation in contract asap. Are they allowed to do this? I thought you had the right to come back to the same job within 26 weeks and I haven’t even left yet and they’re changing it? I was going to see what the job was when I got back and go from there but now they’re wanting me to sign this change in contract before I go I don’t know what to do, do I have to sign it ?

I’ve loss it finally

Please help me good or bad advice I need it !!!
Quick rundown had my baby 3 months ago her dad was cheating on me all the way through pregnancy u til 2 months pp . I was depressed and sad along with pnd ! I allowed him to leave my house sleep about and come back I had no fight left in me I was broken emotionless didn’t want to be here . Fact forward to a few days after valentines day a male friend brought me flowers ex didn’t like it called me all the names ect but 4 days later begging me back I tried for our daughter but he’s put his hands on me twice in the month daily name calling body shaming
Then today we was out his friend rang him why we was in the car to say he has 2 girls for them to go link this was on loud speaker ! I lost my shit arguing we got home I seen red n went for him I then got the hammer & smashed his car windows . I know that was wrong but being goaded daily put down n body shamed made me hate him then I just seen red

Favorite recipe rn?

I need more ideas for dinner, what yall cookin up in the kitchen these days ?