Has anyone had any problems with neighbours after having a baby?
My neighbour is verbally abusive, (shouting, use of profanities, etc.), stomps and bangs consistently, has told us to move, peered through my windows. The list goes on. My landlords are aware, they've warned him, they've told each of us to ignore each other, but he has only grown more comfortable. Unfortunately things always happen so quickly and im not able to record anything. Am I just supposed to live with my phone glued to me constantly recording? I have things to do and a child to care for, nor do I have the means to invest in recording devices. My child wakes up crying because he is afraid to be in his bed, it is worse now because of teething. I genuinely do my best to keep the noise brief and get him right away, but I cannot control my child. I am exhausted, discouraged and it seems as though nothing will change. The landlords will not do anything because they have no physical proof of harassment. If you have any similar experiences or have needed to take this to court, how did it go? Is it even worth it? To be completely honest im starting to feel like maybe my child is the issue or im being a terrible parent despite everyone telling me its normal.
Struggling with my 2 year old boy!!
I am soooooo jealous of the moms who have little boys that listen, are chill and calm. I have an active little boy who LOVES to climb, jump off the highest surface, throw balls and just destroy things.
Recently, my 2 year old has started to pull ALL his toys and throw his stuff around when he doesn't get what he wants or we don't pay attention to him for more than 2 minutes. What am I doing wrong? What do I do because today I LOST it, in what I feel is a bad way. I'm at my wits end and hate it. It's like he doesn't listen unless I'm yelling and I don't want to be like this....I grew up in a home like that and it was like walking on eggshells.
Please give me some real constructive advice, I'm out of my element. And please don't suggest getting him tested or how these are signs of some sort of diagnosis...ita not, I know for a fact. He's just a smart, active little boy.
How to deal with toddler hitting?
I'm so freaking over my 2 year old hitting and throwing things at us, her older sister and the newborn baby. Yes, I know its completely normal behaviour for a 2 year old but at the same time, there's also a safety issue. I've tried everything from redirecting, holding her hands, gently explaining not to hit but nothing works and she just ends up hitting us even more. Its not fair that my older child has to constantly have things thrown at her or slapped. With the newborn baby she will be completely fine kissing him etc and then out of the blue, whacks him in the face. I have to resort to yelling at her because nothing else freaking works and afterwards I feel so guilty for yelling. I try not to get angry and im just hoping it passes with time but its really messing up our family dynamics atm😭😭