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What are some generational curses that u broke in ur family? What have u healed u from that has made u a better a person/parent

Personally for me; my mother was a mother of 4 with 3different baby daddies, she was unable to raise all of us on her own so she gave us up to each of our fathers. My dad was for the streets so It was my grandparents who stepped up! My siblings & I were all raised with our paternal side. My mom’s family had mostly w...

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Breastfeeding guilt

I had a very difficult pregnancy and a very traumatic birth. Due to the blood loss, baby’s tongue tie and extended stay in hospital, my milk supply has been low and also it’s been difficult to breastfeed. I mentally decided for myself that I won’t breastfeed for my own mental health reasons and I’m combination with...

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Placenta

Hey beautiful mommas! I was wondering if any of you have sent your placenta off to be capsule, and did it help with your postpartum depression?

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Postpartum

1. It hurts me terribly. 2. It is both physically and mentally exhausting. 3. It makes me sad that I am unable to breastfeed my baby, and on top of that, I have to listen to everyone's opinions on breastfeeding. 4. My heart breaks into a million pieces when I see my little baby asking for comfort and I am unable ...

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Break up

Me and my partner of 7 years broke up yesterday I have 2 kids with him plus a child he brought up from 1 I'm so heartbroken one minute I think it's the best thing the next I can't stop crying I have no friends and I don't live anywhere near my family he was all I knew for 7 years How do you get over this? How do ...

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Miserable 7 month old

Does anyone else just have a constantly miserable baby? There’s nothing wrong with my daughter, but she’s just so whiney and fussy ALL the time. It started around 5.5 months. She has maybe 10-20 mins of happy a day, and then the rest is crying, screaming, or whining. She needs constant stimulation. She doesn’t like ...

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Feeling sad

I feel so sad my little girl is 20 weeks and she is really grumpy last month or so she’s fussy with feeds and does cry a lot which I already feel so rubbish about like why is she so sad what am I doing wrong:( then a family member on partners side made a comment today saying she cry’s and moans a lot doesn’t she I j...

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Pregnancy Rage against my Husband

I’m 35 weeks and since last week my pregnancy rage is out of control. I miss and love my husband but I swear as soon as I hear him talk or am just in his presence I literally get so angry at him and I just want to cry because of how damn mad I am at him. I’m hurt because I see this ruining our relationship but it’s ...

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I think I'm ruining my marriage

I've been struggling a lot. I was engaged to my husband, but living at home in a very abusive environment, got kicked out of that house, and bought a house with my then fiancé. We're married for almost a year now. And I'm pregnant with our first. We weren't trying to get pregnant, but she's a happy little accident. ...

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Attached to baby

Hello, my baby has just turned 5 months, I have spent every second with her. She sits in her chair or plays on her mat in the bathroom while I shower or wash my face, I always have her in view. I enjoy it like this, it makes me happy to be around her I'm not complaining. I don't like being away from her. I have neve...

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Disappointed, isolated and concerned

Well, my daughter’s 3rd birthday is coming up and it already looks like it will be another year with most people declining. I want so much for her to have friends to play with, but nothing I do seems to work. She’s a wonderful little girl I just wish other moms would give us a chance and other kids would give her ...

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Mental Health

Hi all, Just wondering if anyone has ever been in a similar situation. I’m a first time mum to a literal dream baby (sleeps well, rarely cries, eats well). Me and my hubby have time to ourselves every single night to do whatever we want as he goes down to sleep really easily (I appreciate how lucky I am and no doub...

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Feeling disconnected

Is anyone feeling disconnected from their baby? Baby is 5 weeks & in the last week I feel so tired & resentful of the baby. I’m so sick of pumping & breastfeeding. I’m tired of being stuck in the house! My husband went back to work this week- & it hit me hard! I feel like this isn’t my baby, I don’t know them, & I d...

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Back to work🥺

My lo just turned 7 months and I'm back to work full time on Monday. I feel sick /teary every time I think about it. I will also be working from home whilst looking after my lo twice a week and just so anxious how this is going to work. The mum guilt is so real and I'm really struggling to move past it Is anyone...

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I shout at my baby

I didn't realize I actually shout at my baby until my husband saw and called it out. She's now 8 months and I'm wondering if I'm in the thick of postpartum. She's been fussy lately, teething and sleep regression at the same time. I feel so bad 😞

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Can we please talk about postpartum hair loss? 😭

I’m 5 months postpartum and I’m losing so so much hair! I know it’s part of the process, but when should I be concerned? It’s so bad that I really dread brushing or washing my hair.

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