

Your birthing plan: you’ve spent hours planning it down to the littlest detail… 😵💫
Medicated vs unmedicated.
Home vs hospital.
While planning is great, sometimes, nature takes its course and our plans go out the window. 🙃
So, when it comes to pregnancy and parenting, you just have to go with the flow mama — and ask for a helping hand along the way. ❤️
This is no different when it comes to pain relief during labor.
Let us take you on a pain-free journey of all the labor analgesia (pain relief) available to mamas-to-be.
In this article: 📝•
Should I have a medicated birth?
•
Why is labor so painful?
•
What is labor analgesia?
•
What types of pain relief (analgesic) are used during labor?
•
What is the most effective analgesia in labor?
•
What are the downsides of epidural analgesia?
•
So, what about pethidine — does it affect baby?
It’s completely your call.
And, whatever you decide, is the right choice for you.
While no one should force this on you, there is no shame in using some medication to make the process just a little more comfortable.
You’ve already made it months through pregnancy, you’re body has been through a lot… (we’re looking at you crunchy moms!) 💪
If you feel the pain is getting a little out of hand, ring that call bell and discuss your options.
You don’t have to go straight for an epidural (equally, you can if you’d like) — there are other forms of pain relief, which we’ll go through with you here.
First off, what is up with labor being so painful?! 😭
Well, your uterus is a very strong muscle, and in labor, its main job is to get the baby and the placenta out.
The pain felt during labor is usually from the contractions of the uterus… squeezing the baby, slowly pushing it down the vaginal canal, and out into the world! 👶
Contractions come in waves, but as labor progresses, they can get closer and closer together, leaving less time to recover between them.
Comparing what labor will be like to other people's experiences will not give you much insight into what you might expect.
The degree of pain will vary between mamas!
You’ve heard us say it before, and we’ll say it again — every woman’s body is unique.
And, it can even differ between pregnancies.
If this is baby no. 1, 2, or even no. 8, each labor process can differ.
There’s no predicting what the contractions will actually feel like this time around.

So, put simply, labor analgesia is pain relief used in labor that has been deemed safe for the mother and baby.
It can be inhaled, taken orally, as an intramuscular injection, or as a local anesthetic into the spinal nerves that carry pain impulses to the birth canal.
And, there’s a whole bunch of options out there, so you can find the best one that works for you. [1]
Tylenol to relieve labor pain… are you sure?
For mild labor pains, it might just do the trick.
✅ Pros:
❌ Cons:
You might know this drug more by the name “laughing gas”…
Medically known as nitrous oxide, it’s an inhaled form of pain relief through a handheld mouthpiece.
It is mixed with oxygen and recommended just as a contraction comes on, usually taking 15-20s to work.
✅ Pros:
❌ Cons:
This is an injectable medication that’s usually given in your thigh or buttocks for pain relief.
It takes roughly 20 minutes to work, but has favorable pain relief efficacy.
✅ Pros:
❌ Cons:
Now, this one we reckon you might have heard of…
Epidurals are an effective pain relief method that offers complete pain relief.
So if you’re experiencing a particularly tough labour, or you simply want to avoid it getting to that point, an epidural will likely sort you out.
But what medication is an epidural?
An epidural is technically a local anesthetic medication that is injected into the epidural space of your spine, and acts on the nerves that innervate the birth canal.
Meaning, the nerves that carry the pain impulses to your brain are blocked!
Woohoo, no pain! 🥳
Epidurals can only be done by anesthetists, so it might mean there is a bit of a wait if they are tied up with other patients.
If you know this is something you want, it’s best to flag it up to your midwife or OB early.
After the plastic tubing (catheter) is inserted into your spine, the anesthetic dose is given via the catheter.
If the anesthetic starts wearing off, a ‘re-dose’ can be given easily via the tube.
✅ Pros:
❌ Cons:

“So, go on then… which one is the best?”
Well, labor epidural analgesia is considered the best pain medication for labor, with over 60% of women opting for it in the USA. [2]
It’s not only fast-acting but, in most cases, provides complete pain (not pressure) relief.
However, in some cases, the epidural does not work effectively and will need to be topped up or re-inserted by the anesthesiologist.
Plus, everyone is different — so it might work well for one, and not so great for another…
Anesthetists generally advise against epidurals after 9cm — not for any reason other than labor usually progresses very quickly by this point, and inserting an epidural takes precious time you don’t have.
On average, insertion takes around 20-30 minutes, and pain relief kicks in after 15-20 minutes.
So if you have 1 hour to go, you’re cutting it quite close. 😬
But again, it depends on the hospital policy and what the anesthetist deems appropriate.
That’s the best part — if the epidural is working correctly, no, it doesn’t hurt to push. 🙏
But, epidurals aren’t always effective, and you might still feel pain.
If the epidural slowly wears off, a top-up dose is easily re-administered via the catheter.
If you do feel any pains creeping back in, let your midwife/OB know as soon as possible.
Yes, but not in the same way.
Epidurals don’t take away the sensation of pressure, so you might still feel your contractions, which will aid in pushing.
You will likely feel your baby moving around your birth canal as your little babe comes out.
Alas, with any medication, there are always downsides…
You might have heard through the labor grapevines that epidurals actually prolong labor but this isn't true.
A scientific paper has provided us with strong evidence that epidurals do not prolong the second stage of labor, and it is likely more an association rather than a risk. [2] [3]
We can’t speak on behalf of all midwives, but they should not be discouraging you from choosing epidurals.
Epidurals are deemed effective and safe to use during labor.
So if you want one, you should absolutely have the right to have one, and not feel judged for making that choice.
The only time you should be denied an epidural (other than lack of time) is for a medical contraindication, or the safety of yourself and the baby.
Midwives have a powerful position to influence women during labor, so they might explain their views, but they should not sway you one way or another.
Epidurals are not known to have lasting effects.
Anesthesiologists are highly trained and can minimize adverse risks.
In rare cases (we’re talking very rare cases) you could lose sensation in one or both legs.
Epidurals might give you a headache the next day and some back pain after removal.
But these only last a few days and should go away with some Tylenol and rest.
Many studies in medicine have drawn different conclusions about the likelihood of tears with an epidural.
But it’s sometimes impossible to make a definitive conclusion based on the large range of research findings out there.
We hear you… why can’t there be a clear answer? 🙄
What we can say is that epidurals have not been linked to reducing tears.
It either has no effects on tearing or can increase the chances of tearing. [4] [5]
This might be more down to the maternal and fetal factors of labor rather than the epidural itself.
You will be happy to hear epidurals are 90% effective.
So, this only leaves 1 in 10 mamas without adequate pain relief. [6]
If it does fail, the epidural can be reinserted, or you might be offered an alternative pain relief method.
Hopping back over to one of our earlier forms of analgesia, pethidine crosses the placenta, which means it can have effects on your baby, too.
The main effects it can have on the baby are lowering heart rate and respiratory rate. [7]
“Wait… what? That sounds scary!”
We hear you, but that’s why your baby will be closely monitored.
If you don’t like the sounds of pethidine, you’ve got plenty of other choices which you can discuss with your OB or midwife.
Pethidine is not known to slow down labor.
Especially if you’re already in established labor.
It has been either linked to speeding up active labor by promoting cervical dilation. [7] [8]
Anddddd…. breathe. 😮💨That was a huge dose of information.
But, as they say… knowledge is power.
If you want to get more of the insider scoop from mamas who have tried analgesia in labor, come join the conversation on Peanut. 🥜
You have questions, they might have the answers you’re looking for.

What Is Delayed Cord Clamping, and Should It Be in Your Birth Plan?
By
Tassia O'Callaghan

What is Perineal Massage for Labor (and Does It Actually Work)?
By
Tassia O'Callaghan

Cervix Dilation Chart: How to Track Your Progress During Labor
By
Tassia O'Callaghan

Inducing Labour With Dilapan-S
By
Phoebe Corcoran

Back Pain After Epidural: Is It Normal?
By
Katie Mill

What Is a Foley Bulb Induction?
By
Katie Mill
Does anybody have experience of a c-section under general anaesthetic? I have been told I can not have an epidural due to some health problems and have been given the option of being put to sleep, I unsure of my other options than this or birth with gas and air until I see the anaesthetists 🥲

17
Hey girls! I am roughly 6 weeks pregnant and found out because I was having very bad cramps. I had a scan last week which showed gestational sac and this week a yolk sac inside but still no heartbeat. I have been discharged from epu until routine 12 week scan. I have a previous diagnosis of endometriosis so the cramps could be caused by this but am I right in saying with the cramping and pain I should be seen once more to confirm a heartbeat?
T.I.A a nervous first time mum🙈🫶🏻🫶🏻
6
Hi all,
I’m currently 16 weeks with my fourth pregnancy. I am getting a really unsettling feeling about this pregnancy. I cant shake this feeling like there is something wrong. Like I’m going to go to my scan in 4 weeks and they will tell me there is no heart beat. I guess it’s not helping that I can’t feel baby kick not even flutters. I definitely did at this stage in my last pregnancy.
2
4
Hiya ladies I’m currently 39 weeks and 4 days I have opted for a VBAC I had my first child last year in April
I was hopeful for a VBAC at the beginning of this second pregnancy as baby is not breech this time round however as I’m getting close to my due date as well as being in the early labour phase for the last 2 weeks and still stuck at 2cm I’m becoming worried as I’ve been told if I go to 41 weeks they may have to induce me but there are risks of scar rupture leading to an emergency c section anyway.
Today it’s really been sitting on my mind as I’ve been in and out of hospital recently with pains but no progress in dilation so it’s really making me out way my options for a VBAC, hence was wondering if anyone has any positive induction stories after having a c section xz

8
Hey so did anyone else have really heavy periods when they came back? I'm on what I believe to be my second period (7 months post partum) and its like the great flood or something its crazy.

6
I’m 11 weeks pregnant and have known since before conception I wanted a c-section. I have only known friends who had traumatic natural births and do not want to risk the “worst of both worlds” with a traumatic natural birth and THEN emergency c-section anyway.
Has anyone else here done this, if so how did you go about telling your midwife, and friends?! I feel there’s so much judgement even though it is supposedly MY choice.
1
7
Scan to Join
Rated 4.4
Trusted by 6M+ women
.png?_wwcv=1848)