How Much to Pay a Babysitter

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Alicia Wallace

Oct 14 2022

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4 min read

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Curious about how much to pay a babysitter? While this is not a one-amount-fits-all situation, there are some guidelines to follow. Read on. Desperate for a night out?

Or maybe you feel like your last date night took place in a galaxy far, far away?

Or perhaps you have an important work function that you can’t miss.

Time to find a babysitter.

Like so many things mamahood, the question of how much to pay a babysitter is not something you’re supposed to just know the answer to.

That's where we come in.

In this article: 📝

How much do most babysitters charge? 💰

Show me the money!

How much do most babysitters charge? 💰

This depends on a couple of factors.

Age and experience of the sitter

Your neighbor’s 15-year-old daughter may not charge as much as someone with kids of their own.

Extra credentials like CPR training generally come with a higher price tag.

If your child has additional needs, getting a sitter with a special skill set may also cost a little more.

The number of babies

As any mama knows, looking after one rugrat is very different from looking after two or more.

Depending on the area you live in (more about that below) baby sitters may charge between $1 to $3 extra per child per hour.

The age of your child/children

A newborn baby requires a lot more active care than the average 10-year-old who has more bodily independence.

So factor in an extra $1 or $2 an hour for wee ones.

Where you live

The answer to the question how much do most people charge an hour for babysitting? is usually geography-dependent.

As with most things, costs go up in bigger cities.

According to Care.com, sitters in San Antonio, Texas, earn approximately $14 an hour.

Compare that with New York City’s $18.75 average rate.

You'll also get totally different answers for “How much do you pay a babysitter in Canada?” as opposed to “How much do you pay a 15 year old babysitter in the UK?”.

Check in with the other parents in your area.

What are they paying their babysitters?

Ask on neighborhood groups and when picking up your kids from school.

Chances are you could get some great personal referrals, too.

Additional duties and responsibilities

If you need your babysitter to do some light cleaning, help with homework or get your child to sports practices, you can expect to pay more.

So always be sure to check in with whoever you employ as to what their expectations and parameters are.

Transportation costs

It is quite common for babysitters to have their transport to and from your home covered at an additional rate — especially if you’re only employing them for a couple of hours.

They may bill you for the mileage, or you could choose to supply them with a bus or subway card.

If they are using their own car to drop your child at appointments or extra lessons, remember to reimburse them for the extra gas and mileage.

How many hours and when

Most babysitters will have a minimum charge of two or more hours — especially if they're traveling further than from just across the street.

And remember that if they are giving up their New Years Eve, you will typically have to pay them more than you would on an average Friday night.

There will also be a difference if the babysitter is looking after your children during the day and actively entertaining them.

That’s more work than getting them in bed by 8pm and keeping an eye on them from the sofa until you come home.

Show me the money!

So let's break it down, and consider how much to pay a babysitter per day.

Say you have a family of 3 kids.

Taking the national average of $17.40, you're looking at paying at least $19.40 an hour to accommodate the extra two children at $1 a piece.

If one is a 4-month-old baby, consider an extra $1, bringing the total to $20.40 per hour.

Say you are out from 7pm to 10pm, that's $61.20 (excluding transport costs).

Pop geography into the mix, and you may be looking at about $51 in San Antonio, and $65.25 in New York City (still excluding transport).

If you need help with your calculations, Care.com has a handy babysitting rate calculator to help you narrow it down.

It can seem like a minefield working this all out.

If you need any extra help, chat with the mamas in your Peanut community for advice.

Now book that sitter and hit the town💃.

You deserve it.

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I have finally done it. I have finally become the trope, the stereotype.

I have become bitter, resentful, and very overwhelmed and overloaded. I am very unhappy and hit burnout. And I snapped at my husband last night. I work full-time, and work has been very busy so im working late a lot. Im also in grad school. I also have a toddler that has become VERY clingy with me. My husband works shorter days but commutes, so he usually gets home after me by an hour or more. When he gets home, he usually heads to the restroom for at least 30 mins when he gets home. And now my toddler doesnt want anything to do with him. So im doing all the toddler duties until bed. I dont get 5 mins to myself. Not for almost 2 years. I finally hit my wall. I have also, somehow, become my MILs medical ride service and she somehow has an appt every week, it seems?! Shes not sick!! My husband was complaining that he needs to change routine to fit in a workout sometimes, and I lost it. I have been BEGGING for 5 mins to myself for months. I have been telling him how im not good, im going to burn out for months. And between his attitude and him complaining (which really got me b/c he blames me for not being able to work out?! Saying I need help when he gets home so he just cant workout now) I just lost it completely. I told him how unfair my life has become and I have the entire mental and emotional load and it is just not fair. He got mad at me and said "hes trying" when hes literally not trying at all. What do I do?? No one is taking the load from me! And im done and dont know what to do now.
I do not like this version of me.

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AITA?

This isn't a major issue, just wondering if I'm being a bit of an asshole.

• I do shift work, 5 out of 7 days, full-time.
• My partner works from home (mostly, sometimes he goes into the office) M-F, full-time.

Anyway, whenever I have a day off during the week he gets in his feelings when I make myself food (breakfast and lunch) but not him. His reason is he's working, I'm not - Which is fair but I've asked him how many times on a weekend has he gotten up, on his day off and made me breakfast and a lunch to take with me to work? You guessed it, 0.

So basically, just because I'm at home I don't think the responsibility to feed him should automatically fall on me when he manages to feed himself just fine while I'm at work.

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Big vent!

Hi mums.
I'm a first time mum in my 40s to twin boys.They are almost 5 months old and the biggest miracle in my life!
I am struggling!!!
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My husband is not helping much because he's always too busy with work.He will "look" after them usually between 8pm-12am so I can have a chance to sleep.
He expects me to just sleep when I touch the pillow,even though I hear tje babies crying and him don't really bother because most of the times he'll be on his laptop working.
When I tell him I can't relax to fall asleep because I feel you r neglecting the babies,he says I'm the problem becauae I'm always there with them and don't give them alone time!!
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I can't keep.up.with housework becauae someone alwaya neess me and most of the times they nap I either cook and clean tje kitchen,do laundry or try and take a quick nap.
He doesn't help.around the house,becauae..guess what?always super busy.
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2 days ago a button of his coat ripped and I told him I'll sew it these days.
Earlier this morning while running late for his work,as always,he weara the coat and told him didn't get the chance to fix the button and sarcastically said..of.course u didn't!!!
I spent all night awake because one of the babies had congested nose and we've been trying to reduce one fees at night.
I wanted to punch him!!He left and I started crying...I cry so much,even at 5 months pp...
I can't go on like this anymoreeeee...
The crying in my ears is constant..my head is always numb..I've gained so much weight and can't find the strength to get back on track..
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