The term “self care” might seem like a bit of a buzzword. Every other post you see online is telling you to take care of yourself, but how do you even do that as a busy mom? With noses to wipe and meals to prep, what mom has time to look after herself?! While celebrity self care seems to revolve around glamorous weekends away or trips to day spas, that can leave the mere mortals among us feeling, well, further away than ever from taking care of ourselves.
But self care ideas for moms don’t have to be overwhelming, and they shouldn’t turn into just one more thing to add to your to-do list! We know mamas have got the toughest job of all, but it doesn’t mean we can’t afford a bit of me-time now and again. So even if it is just a five-minute opportunity, it’s time for some mom self care.
In this article: 📝
- How do I take care of myself as a mother?
- Why do moms need self care?
- What are the 8 areas of self care?
- What are self care activities?
- 59 Self care ideas for moms
How do I take care of myself as a mother?
If you don’t have family or friends around to help with childcare, fancy trips and date nights might be off the table for now. But taking care of yourself can be as simple as taking a nap or enjoying a cup of coffee while it’s actually still hot. Remembering what you used to enjoy before motherhood can help you feel like you again.
Why do moms need self care?
Moms often put their own needs at the bottom of the pile, after the kids, partner, chores, work, and other commitments. But moms need their cup filled too. After all, you can’t expect to be the best version of yourself if you’re not investing any time in yourself. You matter, too, mama.
What are the 8 areas of self care?
While the exact wording might vary depending on where you look, generally the eight areas of self care are: physical, psychological, emotional, social, professional, environmental, spiritual, and financial.
What are self care activities?
As we said, self care for mothers doesn’t have to be insta-worthy. It just needs to be whatever sounds good to you. Some special time for you to do something new, rearranging something that annoys you, or asking a friend for help. There’s no need for mom-guilt here.
59 Self care ideas for moms
Physical self care
- Go for a walk around a new neighborhood with your baby.
- Go for a run to get your heart pumping.
- Try a new exercise class.
- Learn a dance routine on youtube.
- Try yoga to help a specific ache or pain.
- Get a massage or facial.
- Do some gardening.
- Revisit your favorite sport from pre-pregnancy days, like rock-climbing or kayaking.
Psychological self care
- Set limits on your daily social media use.
- Practice mindfulness.
- Learn a new skill, like knitting.
- Bake a cake or treats for your children.
- Read a book (of your own choice, not your toddler’s insistence).
- Draw a picture or get an adult coloring book or paint-by-numbers.
- Do a crossword, sudoku, or other puzzles.
Emotional self care
- See a therapist if you think you would benefit from professional help.
- Outsource a chore you really hate, like cleaning the house.
- Take a nap or go to bed early.
- Spend 15 minutes every day writing whatever you think of in a journal.
- Watch a funny movie that always makes you laugh.
- Make a cup of tea or coffee while the baby is napping, and drink it while it’s hot!
- Try saying “no” to something you really don’t want to do.
- Sing along in the car to a great song.
Social self care
- Meet a friend for a coffee.
- Organize a babysitter so you can go on a date night with your partner.
- Accept help from someone who offers.
- Smile and say “Hello” to someone you walk past.
- Call a friend for a quick chat.
- Go to a movie.
- Give someone a compliment.
- Email or write to someone you miss that you haven’t spoken to in a while.
- Offer to help a friend out.
Professional self care
- Know your worth and remind yourself of it daily.
- Set boundaries around your working hours.
- Take time to have a healthy lunch.
- Spend time outside on your break.
- Book a day off while your child is in daycare.
- Look for ways to develop your career in the direction you want.
Environmental self care
- Declutter that kitchen cupboard that annoys you.
- Take clothes you don’t wear to a charity shop.
- Pack away or donate clothes and toys that your baby doesn’t need anymore.
- Organize your pantry with containers and labels.
- Get your car serviced and cleaned.
- Rearrange your furniture.
- Remove screens (like TV’s) from your bedroom.
Spiritual self care
- Start a gratitude journal.
- Meditate either by yourself, with a coach, or using an app.
- Visit a quiet place, like a forest or beach.
- Visualize a happy memory for five minutes.
- Go somewhere local you’ve never been before.
- Look back through photo albums.
- Make a list of your core values to refer back to occasionally.
Financial self care
- Cancel any subscriptions or memberships you don’t use.
- Set up and contribute to a savings account for you, your family, or your baby.
- Create a family budget and follow it.
- Arrange for your bills to be automatic payments so you don’t have to remember.
- Listen to a financial podcast for tips and tricks to better manage your money.
- Donate to a charity you are passionate about.
- Create an achievable plan to pay off any debts.
There you have it, mama. 59 self care ideas. Hopefully you found something here that sounds good to you or at least were inspired to find your own perfect self care activity. Good luck, mama!
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