We’ve all seen it in nature documentaries – the mama bear choosing the best cave to give birth to her young ones, a bird lining her nest, even a fish hiding her eggs on the ocean floor. Yep, that’s nesting!
In this article: 📝
- What does nesting mean?
- When do you start nesting in pregnancy?
- What causes nesting in pregnancy?
- What does it mean when you are nesting?
- How do you know if you are nesting?
- Happy nesting in pregnancy: 5 tips
What does nesting mean?
Nesting is the instinct to prepare a cozy, clean, safe space for a little one who’s about to arrive, and it appears in mamas of all shapes and sizes, throughout the natural world.
Sure, animals do it, we hear you say, but is nesting in pregnancy a real thing for humans?
As any mama-to-be who’s been up at 3am scrubbing floors, repainting the nursery, or creating a new and improved birth plan (ninth draft) will confirm, yup: pregnancy nesting is definitely a real thing.
When do you start nesting in pregnancy?
When do pregnant women start nesting?
And all that energy gets directed into creating a safe environment where you can nurture your baby in their first few days and weeks of life ‒ nesting.
You may feel that you want to clean your entire home, or you may be focused on organizing every detail of the nursery – down to the last tiny sock.
Alternatively, your nesting energy might go into planning the birth itself, including working out the ideal location for labor, practicing your breathing techniques, or packing (and then re-packing) your hospital bag.
What causes nesting in pregnancy?
It’s not certain what exactly causes the nesting instinct to kick in.
A rise in your adrenaline or estrogen (the pregnancy hormone) levels in the later stages of pregnancy may be responsible for your need to sort out your “human nest”.
Or it may be related to anxiety over having everything exactly right for your baby’s arrival.
According to scientific research, nesting in pregnancy is a way for mamas-to-be to make sure their little ones are well protected when they are born.
Preparing a safe space for birth and limiting contact with people are typical aspects of this (so if you’ve been feeling really anti-social recently, that could be why!).
What does it mean when you are nesting?
So what does the nesting stage in pregnancy actually mean?
Well, for most mamas-to-be, the nesting phase can be a precursor to labor.
But for others, it could just mean that your pregnancy hormones are running a little wilder than usual.
Does nesting mean labor is near?
So how long after nesting does labor start?
Well, because the nesting stage in pregnancy often occurs later on, near to your due date, it’s traditionally been thought that nesting means labor is on the way.
There’s no solid evidence that this is the case, though.
How early do you start nesting during pregnancy?
What about nesting in early pregnancy?
While it’s not as well documented, early nesting has been known to happen.
It could simply be a reflection of your sheer excitement at being pregnant.
But if you have nesting from around 24 weeks, that’s also totally normal.
Nesting isn’t an indicator of anything in particular in your pregnancy, and, really, could happen at any time.
How do you know if you are nesting?
It’s important to remember that plenty of mamas don’t get the urge to start nesting – or not to the same extent.
You may feel perfectly relaxed about the level of tidiness in your home, or you may feel too tired to do a lot of cleaning.
If that’s the case, don’t be concerned or force yourself to start frantically organizing – if you don’t want to start nesting, that is a-OK!
But here are some signs that you might be nesting in pregnancy:
- Deep cleaning: If you’re keen to get scrubbing areas that you didn’t even know existed before, that could be a sign of nesting.
- Cleaning and tidying at all hours: It’s 2am, you can’t sleep, and you’re cleaning the shower. Yup, that could be nesting!
- Nothing’s ever quite right: You keep tweaking baby’s nursery furniture layout or changing your mind about where to store their clothing.
- Buying stuff you probably won’t need: Not just baby things, either, but if you’ve just noticed you don’t have a nutcracker, you might suddenly get the feeling like you need one right now.
- Minimalism: Or you could go the other way ‒ if you haven’t used it, you just get rid of it (unless it’s baby things and you’re a first-time mama).
- Emotional about tidiness: If your partner moves something out of place, you might be feeling personally offended or hurt by it. Ah, the joys of nesting in pregnancy!
Is nesting a real thing?
Yes, it certainly is!
In fact, some studies suggest that nesting in pregnancy stems back to our early days as humans.
So the nesting instinct is just that ‒ an instinct.
Happy nesting in pregnancy: 5 tips
Gripped by nesting fever right now?
Here are some tips to avoid ruffled feathers (sorry, couldn’t resist!):
1. Factor some resting into your nesting
Try to save some of that valuable extra energy for birth.
Give yourself breaks between cleaning sessions and avoid any scrubbing marathons in the middle of the night – you need your sleep, mama!
2. Be safe!
Avoid nesting tasks that involve reaching up too high, heavy-lifting, or standing on ladders – you don’t want to risk an injury.
Also, go for gentle cleaning products rather than harsh chemical cleaners, and make sure there’s enough airflow in the room when you’re using them.
3. Get emotional support
If your nesting is motivated by anxiety about being prepared for labor and delivery, talk to someone you trust about your feelings.
You can always reach out to your support system on Peanut for reassurance.
4. Let your partner take their share
Preparing your human nest can be a team effort ‒ you might want a nesting partner!
What is a nesting partner?
Well, if you live with your partner or other family members, you can always delegate some nesting chores to them and enjoy a little well-earned relaxation.
5. Plan some me-time
Of course, nesting for baby’s arrival is important, mama, but remember to take some time for you, too!
Leave the dustpan in the cupboard and the laundry unfolded once in a while – it’s time to get stuck into a good book or start a new Netflix series.
Now you know a little more about nesting in pregnancy, it’s time to cut yourself a little slack, mama.
You don’t have to do this alone ‒ find your nesting partner in your spouse, friends, or family, and find other pregnancy support on Peanut.
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