Diamond.. I am so so sorry. I know there is nothing anyone could say to make this ok..
All the things you are thinking and feeling are completely vaild and understandable..
I have had a few miscarriages myself, if I could go back in time, this is what i would say to myself.
You did nothing wrong. This is not your fault.
Please been kind and gentle with yourself physically & emotionally...
Consider speaking to a therapist when you're ready ...
Sending you love and peace 🙏🏼
I’m so sorry for your loss and I know how heartbreaking and painful it is. I have a son and I went on to have two late miscarriages I had to deliver both my little girls and had funerals for them both. Give yourself time and be kind to yourself, it’s just happens in life sometimes and there are no answers as much as we want them and a reason for what happened.. I’ve been put on aspirin now . Sending you so much love 💕
Back in December I went for my first scan and we were told the baby had no heartbeat. I was devastated to discover I had a miss miscarriage without any signs but the worst was having to wait in hospital in so much pain for everything to come out. I didn’t think I was going to have kids anytime soon after that but now I’m 24 weeks pregnant. I’m so sorry for your loss it is a pain you can’t explain however I’m sending you lots of love and hugs and you will get through this.
My first pregnancy was a miscarriage and it’s just a awful thing to happen, whilst I was waiting for my scan for this pregnancy I got talking to another lady waiting for her scan she had a 7 year old girl and had 6 miscarriages between her and the pregnancy now. I actually stayed until after her scan as no one can be there with covid regulations to support as I didn’t want her to be on her own. But this time the baby made it. I have only had one miscarriage which was awful but to have multiple I can’t imagine it. I am so sorry 💔
Sending you love and empathy xx
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