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I had a miscarriage today 😭

It’s been really hard I just don’t understand I had a healthy baby and she’s 4yrs old now and this is my 3rd miscarriage... You guys this is really hard and I’m devastated 😭😭😭😭😭😭
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this!!! I had a miscarriage before and I know what you’re going through

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Thank you I appreciate it❤️

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I have had three myself and I'm now going on 12 weeks tomorrow I know the hurt and emptiness you blame yourself and try to figure out what you did wrong and what you could have done better or different but I'm a firm believer in the saying things happen for a reason which for me at that time was the last thing I wanted to hear but now having my high risk doctor explain to me what my problem was and what my baby would have been going threw made it a little bit easier for me to process it will get better you will always have that place in your heart tho for those precious angel babies no matter what

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Thank you i know each day will get better❤️

So sorry for your lost.

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Thank you ❤️

My heart hurts for you, I'm so sorry!

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Thank you ❤️ It will get better

I’m so sorry for your loss. I completely understand how you feeling. I’ve had two before this pregnancy. The best advice I can give, is to take it one day at a time. Pray about it. Don’t blame yourself. 🙏💜

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Thank you ❤️I do need to pray more🙏🏾

So sorry for your loss. ❤️ I’ve lost four and it never gets easier. Sending peace and comfort your way

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Thank you ❤️

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I had a similar journey, My son was my first pregnancy and a year later I was pregnant with twins I miscarried one of the twins then a few weeks later the other twin also. I had to go to hospital as my body wouldn’t let them go. With help from a special OB I went onto clomid and conceived and gave birth to my daughter. A few years later I had 2 miscarriages in a row. I then became pregnant again with another little boy only to find out he implanted outside my uterus in my csection scar and they had to terminate him. I was in hospital for a month as my uterus began to rupture and they wanted to do a hysterectomy. Thankfully bed rest and lots of medical intervention later I kept my uterus and was allowed home. A few months later I became pregnant with another little boy who I gave birth to in August 2018. You’re not alone lovely and if you ever need to talk I’m here ❤️

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I’m sorry to hear that❤️🙏🏾 Thank you and we all in this together

So sorry for your losses. Thinking of you.

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Thank you ❤️

First and for most I am so sorry for your losses. I had 3 miscarriages in a 9 and a half month period of time. There are no words to describe the pain, sorrow, grief we experience as Angel Moms. I am praying for you my dear. My 1st lost occurred on October 16 and each anniversary I celebrate each of there lives on the day they entered into the arms of Jesus. My faith has brought me comfort and I pray it does the same for you.

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Thank you ❤️Us moms will get through this

Yes we will. :)

I am so sorry to hear!!! I had a miscarriage in July! It’s definitely not easy to go through! ❤️

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Thank you ❤️No it’s not I feel your pain

So sorry for your loss 🙏😢

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Thank you ❤️

Sorry for your loss xx:((

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Thank you ❤️

Really sorry for your loss, sending love and warm thoughts your way x

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Thank you ❤️

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love xx

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I’m so sorry for your losses.. this is so devastating, I went through this to before I had my first.. you keep asking yourself “why”.. but do you take folic acid tablets? What also can help is chasteberry pillls.. I took both like for 3 months & it helped..

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Thank you ❤️... I only take them when I know I’m pregnant but I could try that

You can take them to prepare your body for the baby.. it worked for me after 2.5 months.. good luck mama 🍀

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So sorry for your lost sending you love and hugs ❤️🤗 x

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Thank you ❤️

So sorry ♥️

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Thank you ❤️

So sorry for ur loss I have had 4 recurrent ones advice I would give is to talk freely about ur loss I found if I bottled things up I would feel worse but understand everyone is different and deal with grief In different ways x

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I completely lost it yesterday!! My daughter couldn’t understand what was wrong with me.. Yes it’s good to talk about it instead of holding everything in... Thank you ❤️

Im so sorry for your loss❤️.

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Thank you ❤️

Stay strong 💫 sorry for your loss I had one not that long ago, hear it you need any support or anything x

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Sorry to hear that as well.. Thank you ❤️

So sorry for your loss xx

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Thank you ❤️

So sorry for your loss 💖xx

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Thank you ❤️

Sending big hugs and lots of love, it’s so unbelievably hard 🤗🤗

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Thank you ❤️ It really is

The thing that helped me with mine was numbers. I spent ages obsessing and worrying of why they didn't make it... If numbers don't help you don't need to read on! The womb is the most inhospitable place in your body to grow an embryo. Plant it anywhere else and it will flourish. Only 25% of eggs get fertilised. If it is successfully fertilised, only 50% of them actually manage to implant in the most inhospitable place... Where their challenge is only just beginning! They then have to fight and fight to produce enough HCG for your body to think okay, I'll accept this foreign body. And only 25% of them manage to do that! Your little girl is an absolute miracle and only the absolute strongest of sells get to fight the almost impossible battle of conception! You've got this. You're strong! And I am sending lots of hugs over to you.

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Thank you ❤️🙏🏾

So sorry love how awful take time to grieve you got this

I'm so so sorry 😔 sending love and healing thoughts your way x

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Thank you ❤️

I am so sorry to hear. I am sending love and healing light your way. 🙏🏻❤️

So sorry for your loss. Best thing to do is take time to grieve and talk when your ready, I lost mine valentines day this year and the loss Is imaginable. Take care

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So sorry for your loss. It really sucks. But try to find hope and don’t give up.

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So sorry to hear Diamond, let yourself grieve and take time to really take care of yourself 💙

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Thank you ❤️

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I also had a miscarriage yesterday. I have a 2 year old and had the perfect pregnancy and birth with her. I am struggling also. It’s so so hard. Sending you love xx

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I’m sorry to hear that!! It’s hard I’m sending love your way as well!! Stay strong mommy❤️🙏🏾

So sorry. I’ve had 3 back to back so I know exactly how you feel. Prayers up. ❤️

So sorry to hear this, that’s really hard. May you find strength and support, but also grieve. ❤️

My condolences for your loss. 💔 May TMH be of comfort, peace at heart, soundness of mind in your most time of need. Ase

I am so sorry to hear this. My first pregnancy was healthy too and as a result I have a 23 month old, but since then I have had two miscarriages back to back so I can understand how awful this feels. In time, if you’re struggling to deal with the grief, there is no shame in going to a doctor and asking them to prescribe you something to help you get through it. I was put on an SSRI after my second miscarriage and it has helped me cope immensely. It allowed me to be the mummy I needed to be to my toddler, rather than falling apart. In the meantime, please be gentle with yourself, don’t feel pressured into rushing or hiding your grief, and remember it’s nothing you’ve done wrong. Xxx

So sorry to hear this, sending you love ❤️

I’m sorry for your loss Diamond. So sorry ❤️

I’m sorry, I can’t imagine what ur going thru. I hope u stay strong and get through this. I don’t understand either why it happens but maybe u need to get the professionals to investigate why it’s happened 3 times so u can maybe be under extra care and attention in the future. I hope ur ok and get thru this xxx ❤️

So sorry for your loss 💔💔 so heartbreaking.

Big hugs to you xxx

Sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs. xx

So sorry to hear, sending lots of love 💓

Sending you love and empathy xx

My first pregnancy was a miscarriage and it’s just a awful thing to happen, whilst I was waiting for my scan for this pregnancy I got talking to another lady waiting for her scan she had a 7 year old girl and had 6 miscarriages between her and the pregnancy now. I actually stayed until after her scan as no one can be there with covid regulations to support as I didn’t want her to be on her own. But this time the baby made it. I have only had one miscarriage which was awful but to have multiple I can’t imagine it. I am so sorry 💔

Back in December I went for my first scan and we were told the baby had no heartbeat. I was devastated to discover I had a miss miscarriage without any signs but the worst was having to wait in hospital in so much pain for everything to come out. I didn’t think I was going to have kids anytime soon after that but now I’m 24 weeks pregnant. I’m so sorry for your loss it is a pain you can’t explain however I’m sending you lots of love and hugs and you will get through this.

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I’m so sorry for your loss and I know how heartbreaking and painful it is. I have a son and I went on to have two late miscarriages I had to deliver both my little girls and had funerals for them both. Give yourself time and be kind to yourself, it’s just happens in life sometimes and there are no answers as much as we want them and a reason for what happened.. I’ve been put on aspirin now . Sending you so much love 💕

Diamond.. I am so so sorry. I know there is nothing anyone could say to make this ok.. All the things you are thinking and feeling are completely vaild and understandable.. I have had a few miscarriages myself, if I could go back in time, this is what i would say to myself. You did nothing wrong. This is not your fault. Please been kind and gentle with yourself physically & emotionally... Consider speaking to a therapist when you're ready ... Sending you love and peace 🙏🏼

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