L
1 year ago

Today I found out my baby had no heartbeat at 11 weeks.

I am so heartbroken and so undecided on letting the miscarriage happen naturally or have a d&c. I know either way will be hard but I would love any helpful advice!

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1 year ago

I went through this as well :( i had it naturally it took almost 4 weeks

1 year ago

I am so sorry lovely. I also found out this week we have an angel 👼 at 10.5 weeks and passed on at 8.5 weeks. I was all natural but into 3 weeks in belly and no passing I’m worried about that and went for D&C. Surgery Monday. If it happens before then my body is letting me know it preferred that I suppose but this would be a very individual decision. I chose a D&C based on the fact I have no family here and in covid can’t for a long time. My husband can’t wait days at home so he is working and I have been home all week waiting for baby to lay to rest but it’s been extremely hard and scary without support of any kind. So that’s why I chose my path but if you have a lot of support and feel in your heart that’s the way and you are close to medical help if need be, you might be comfortable. Totally up to you but even reading your posts helped me!! Wishing you well mama

1 year ago

Sorry to hear this happened. Thinking and praying for you 🙏🏾❤️💖

1 year ago

Sorry to hear. I found out yesterday too that our little angel didn’t have a heartbeat. We were supposedly 10 weeks & 6 days. It’s so hard. Praying for you.

1 year ago

Sending love to you xx

1 year ago

So sorry for your loss. I am in the same boat at the moment, I had my 4th scan today where they finally confirmed a missed miscarriage. I have chosen the D&C which I will have on Thursday. I’ve heard the medical management and natural way could potentially take weeks. It may not but it’s just something I don’t want to risk. Personally I just want it to be over with as quickly as possible so I can move on. We also want to try again after my first period. Everyone’s different so do what feels right for you. Sending hugs x

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