So I have a massive phobia of cockroaches. It's debilitating. Extends to multiple bugs. Some the phobia is more mild. Like tiby cockroaches, even small ones are ok but medium, big and large are absolute no goes. I cannot sleep if I know a cockroach is in the room.
Anyway, my partner and kiddo went to bed a bit before me tonight and as I was going to bed I saw 2 cockroaches. Sprayed them both. 1 died and 1 disappeared.
Went into the bedroom and found a 3rd. Sprayed it too and then figured it wohkd die quickly under my sons cot. So I was super anxious about it.
Then it came out and was on the wall so I went to get the spray and it moved to the floor. I tried to get it out of the room but it cane back towards me.
I was terrified so jumped on the bed and woke my partner.
He got angry but got up, sprayed where I said it was and then asked "what do yoy want me to do?". He said he wasn't searching for it.
He got back into bed and I felt sixk witg anxiety.
I heard noises and woke him up again. He moved everything and sprayed it. He then placed the can on it.
He went vack to sleep and I felt calmer.
A minute later I heard rustling and looked around with my phone torch and saw another one on the window (which is high up).
I woke him up again and he was really angry and stomped out of bed. The cockroach dissapeared. He sprayed the window and the floor beneath it.
He told me this was fucking stupid and went back to sleep.
I lay back down but a second later heard rustling. I sat on the bed a scared mess, looking on the floor for the roach.
Ended up waking my partner again. He was really cranky and said we were out of spray.
I couldn't deal so we agreed our son and I would go stay with my parents (we are basically neighbours. Live on the same property)
I feel hurt by how he reacted and like a burden but I know he needs sleep and was tired.
AITA?
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