Baby Daddy Drama

I thought he would come around with time but he’s running away so far. I texted him hello from a different number and he started calling from a different weird number I heard his voice & he kept saying yo yo yo . I wrote hello to that number and he asked who it is once I said my name and asked how he’s been he tried to act like it was someone else’s phone he used smh.

My son’s father is asking for me to send him pics/videos of our son. Keep in mind he makes minimal effort to come see him or to even FaceTime him. I just feel like he would be able to have his own pictures/videos if he stepped up to see him more. Also, I have concerns that he’ll use the pics/vids to make it seem like he’s around our son more than he really is or to make it seem like me & him are on good terms but we are not. Thoughts? Does this make me look bitter or difficult?

Been discussing visitation time with my child’s father. At first, I thought alternating weeks/every other week would be a good idea. I get much needed breaks, momma’s gotta have a life too ya know. But then, I thought a week is way too long for a 4.5 month old to be away from their mother. I think him going with his father for his 2 days off from work will suffice for now. Am I being unreasonable?

I have two children whose father has recently denied that they are his, despite having signed both of their birth certificates. He is not providing any support for them. The Child Maintenance Service (CMS) has attempted to arrange a DNA test, but he has refused and is no longer responding to their calls. I am now considering taking this matter to mediation. I would like to understand whether mediation can require him to take a DNA test, and what mediation can realistically help achieve in this situation. I’m also hoping to take him to court !

super. cool. whatever. I wish I had more to keep throwing up tbh.