I don’t think it is, my 4yo toddler was brushing my hair (I had the idea) and he was happily doing it. Then my partner got mad, took the brush from him and took him away, and prohibited me to let him do that. Which is just stupid to me. He said a boy should not do those things, and told me not to get the kid involved in that type of stuff.
The kid cried for a while when he took the brush. Am I in the wrong or is this really stupidity and taboos?