Mom's going through divorce/separation/ breakups

So my bf did a thing today. He decided to sell his GTO race car for 5k to help me get an attorney 🥺 I have fought for my kids for a year so to our council. My heart feels happy. But sad that he sacrificed his favorite car. I’m so thankful for him and love him so much. I am so blessed. 🥲 Tomorrow’s agenda. Find a lawyer and continue to fight for my babies.

My baby girl took her first steps last night (yaaaayyyy!!!!) but now I feel a personal conundrum. I've been separated from her dad since September, we go to court for custody/divorce in June. It's been...a complicated situation to say the least. He sees her twice a week with supervision currently. But now I'm not sure if/how I should share that our daughter is walking. Like he needs to know, and he'll find out when he sees her in a couple days, but I feel like I should tell him but also like it would be hurtful to share since he's not here to experience it first hand...idk 🫠 any advice welcome and appreciated. I know it's ultimately my decision based on the specifics of my situation but I just want some ideas or something I guess lol.

Has anyone made it through mediation without hating your ex more??? This man totally blind sided me with a surprise 53k in debt. Then tried to blame it on me. Like sir I didn't know you even made enough to be that in debt.

So I had my pre trial hearing yesterday Had a new judge and he was totally on my exes attorneys side. I’ve posted a couple times in this group about why I’ve been dealing with. In my court order for visitation it says the kids can stay with me here in South Carolina for summer time. Now my ex wants the courts to change it and have me come to Nebraska for the whole summer. Where the hell does he expect me to stay? I have no family no friends. Given the fact that I pay child support already. And he wants me to pay for hotel stays and food for 6 weeks? WTH. 🤦‍♀️ listen I’ve done just about everything I can to co parent and make things easier for us and most importantly for our children. And he’s doing everything he can to take them away. He’s expressed he doesn’t want them coming to SC to see me. I’ve sent him pics and videos of where I live. And the man still isn’t satisfied. I feel like I am being treated like I am a criminal. Like I am a bad mother. I’ve been doing this divorce on my own since last year. My final trial is September 28th and 29th. I just want to breakdown and cry 😭

Hey guys, I’m currently 25 yo with a 3 month old and my baby’s father is fighting for 100% custody of my son he has not yet met due to his own doings. If anyone is also single and going through a separation or similar please comment if you would like to chat ! Support is great during these tough times. LOCATED IN SYD AUS