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Do your kids suck the life out of you?

Please feel free to share. As I am struggling to get through the day. Like most of us 💀 All I want to do is workout…my son just won’t go to bed.

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Is anyone else 11 year olds room a breeding ground for some weird stuff. I just walked in her room with laundry and found makeup all over the floor and mirrors. Don’t even get me started about the cloths all over the floor!

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i’m a mess and have no idea what i’m doing

my husband works and im a stay at home mom. my husband works very hard to support our family. im 20 weeks pregnant, and the cost of putting my daughter in daycare would make my working pretty much pointless. that’s why im not working. but idk. i guess im more just venting atp. we barley even have the money to afford out day to day life and we dont go out on dates, we dont buy unnecessary items or things like that. we live in a 2 bedroom apartment but my husbands mom still kind of lives in the other bedroom. she refuses to move out for some reason even though she basically lives with her boyfriend anyway. so it’s me, my husband, and our 2 toddlers all in 1 room AND we have a baby on the way. even if my MIL moved out, this apartment isn’t big enough and my husband doesn’t make enough money. we didn’t mean to get pregnant it just happened, i never would’ve planned for this knowing how our financial situation is. idk im just really stressed out and i feel so bad for my husband. he’s paying like $800 of his paycheck for insurance for my daughter and i. it would be really helpful if we just didn’t have the insurance and we could use that money. but then my daughter and i wouldn’t have insurance. he would, and so would his son. and i feel like if i did that i’d be failing my daughter a little bit. but if i get her on gov insurance they’d go after my baby daddy for money which would result in a paternity test, him being on her birth certificate, and a custody agreement which i don’t want. i just don’t know what to do, any advice would help.

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Glasses

Any recommendations where I can get prescription glasses online for cheap? With extras like anti glare, transitions and blue light filters?

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Help please

Last night I found out my fiancé was trying to get girls off twitter to FaceTime him was even willing to pay them. He’s messaged about 13 girls in the last 2 weeks with the moth recent one being on Saturday while I was in the hospital finding out I’m gonna have to have my gallbladder removed he was trying to pay a woman to FaceTime him and my heart literally hurts my chest is tight I don’t know how to respond. We have 2 kids together as of today a 1 month old and a 2.5 year old and I don’t know what to do. We’ve been together for 6 years have been actively planning our wedding I’ve had wedding stuff being delivered to our house literally over the last few days and now this. He keeps telling me it was an ignorant mistake and he’ll never do it again please just give him a chance but I seriously don’t know how to react.

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