My nearly 2 year is having full on meltdowns with only me. But if my husband tries to hold her she freaks out even more for me.
She asks for something and I try to talk to her but she just starts crying and then screaming.
My husband is rightfully frustrated because she doesn't behave that way with him and he says it's because I baby her and let her get away with anything and don't communicate or "discipline" her. And I'm getting to my wits end where it takes everything inside me not to scream or walk away.
I try to talk to her but she just keeps crying until I finally distract her with something. My husband says I'm not being a parent and that I can't just distract her, that I have to communicate with her
I don't know what to do, it's happening multiple times a day and feels like it's getting worse!
And it's affecting my nearly 4 year old
I feel defeated and sad and frustrated and don't know how to parent