My boyfriend is a liar. He lies about small things like spending money on games or his credit. I guess these are not small things but we have gotten over these hurdles. He gave me access to his bank account and things have been fine in that area. Recently he lied to be about something small again, like something that I wouldn't even be mad about if he told me the truth. He promises that I caught him in every lie and we have done therapy. Our relationship isn't horrible, but I keep finding out small lies. I do believe he would never be with another woman or cheat on me and I don't want to give up our relationship. Has anyone ever stayed in a relationship with someone who lies? I feel so stupid asking this...but we have gotten through a lot of hurdles. Does it ever change? What helps? I feel dumb wanting to stay, but I feel like in a way it's just how he was raised and it's a trauma response for him from issues in his past. Any advice is appreciated.