One of the most common complaints I hear about is when a partner is very defensive.
No matter what you say, how you say it..
they always have some excuse or justification that leaves you feeling unheard and dismissed in your feelings.
It's hard.
As you rack your brain trying to understand, the only conclusion you come up with 1) they are an insensitive jerk and/or 2) they really don't care at all about how you feel.
But what if it was something different?
What if their response to you wasn't about you at all, but about how they learned to process criticism, how they manage stressful emotions, and how they view themselves.
What if their defensiveness was a reflection of their attachment style?
It's true.
And I want to tell you all about it.
I see so many people struggling with their partner's defensiveness and in the frustration handle it the exact WRONG way.
They point it out every time it happens.
They question why their partner can't ever take responsibility.
Or, they stop sharing how they feel at all.
There's a better way and in my free masterclass I tell you all about it.
👉🏾The reason it happens
👉🏾How to best respond
👉🏾What to do so you can have your needs heard and validated
Get instant access to the 2-part series here: All About Attachment Styles
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