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Devastated - Seperated from Newborn

I was due to give birth to my 3rd baby on the 12th March this year. In the past few weeks I had been suffering awful horrible migraines, the debilitating kind that left me unable to function or see properly. I attended my local maternity triage over 10 times and kept being sent home with as there were no blood pre...

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I lost my insurance and 37 weeks pregnant

Can anyone please give me some ideas how I can get this baby out starting at 38 week pregnant so I don’t need to get induced this is my 3 baby I will have insurance starting Mar 1 so I can go to the hospital I have called every obgyn and they said no because I’m to far along in my pregnancy

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Birth control

Hey guys, my 13 year old daughter has very bad periods. She misses school because she gets so sick the first couple days, and she bleeds very heavy. She either wears two pads back to back or the always discreet overnight underwear pad things. She vomits, has headaches, cramps, the whole nine. Was even in the hospita...

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I think today I was told I can't have more kids

I'm heartbroken, I think I was basically told today that I'll need my uterus out. I have two beautiful boys. But I've been trying for a year for baby 3. I feel maybe I'm being selfish because some people can't even have one. But when I first started trying I go some baby stuff. And now I feel I'm mourning the baby I...

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iMessage group?

Anyone want to do an iMessage group? The only reason I specifically say iMessage is because you can easily remove yourself from iMessage groups, but if it’s a mix between android and iMessage, you have way less features.

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"baby blues"

Anyone going through the "baby blues" phase? I am loving being a mum of 2 (newborn and toddler) and watching them interacting with each other. But I forgot how the baby blues can hit us hard and this rollercoaster of emotions. The anxiety about nothing in particular, the fear of loneliness (no family around) is diff...

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Answers?

So I been pregnant by this guy and he has said im the 4th bm I didn’t know he had other bm he kept it a secret until i got pregnant anyways…this guy asks his bm for her credit card to buy netflix and also ask her money to buy his daughter a tablet and him a tv. And im like wtf like seriously you really out here tryi...

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anyone else’s husband prefer head over sex

we’ve been together 10 years and he has always been this way. he’s almost 40. a part of me feels it’s laziness, and also his penis is on the smaller side so I’ve always wondered if sex isn’t as enjoyable to him because he’s not getting the full experience. I can still feel him inside me but he is definitely the smal...

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S.O wants a perfect housing condition before my mother can visit.

This is a long rant but... My S.O and I had planned for my mom to visit us from overseas after I had my baby. I had already relayed this to my mom and she (and myself) were so happy because I haven't seen her in years due to distance. We had a change of mind and thought that since my mother inlaw already lives in t...

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Maternity pay/leave

So I’m due back to work mid July and my maternity pay has been: 8 weeks full pay + 18 weeks half pay. I now find out that starting in April my workplace are changing it (not just a slight change…) They’re changing it to be 11.5 months FULL PAY. Then with any annual leave on top, so that’s a full year of full pay. I...

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Is anyone else feeling broken

I love my daughter more than I thought possible, but I’m really struggling. She cries all the time - sometimes up to 10h a day. It’s heartbreaking, and it feels like I can’t do anything to help her. I’ve been taking her to baby groups but because she’s so easily overwhelmed and upset, she cries through them almost e...

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💕You deserve more than the bare minimum…

You deserve the best…beginning with what you give yourself. Do you believe this? Type “I DO” to affirm it✨

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Obgyn?!?

Heyy!!! I just moved down here last week! I'm currently 18 weeks pregnant and trying to find a new obgyn!! I have tricare under both my dad and husband!! I've tried calling the naval hospital but evrytime I'm left on hold for over an hour!! Any good recommendations?!?!

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Need a bestie

Anyone want to be besties and talk about anything? I live in TN but wouldn't mind being friends with people who live anywhere.. I only have Facebook though, lol.. don't judge me 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

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Kaiser experience?

So we paid about 5,000 all together for the hospital bill for our son. I thought all the big bills were over. Now my insurance is telling me every appointment I have is $275! Not even counting vaccines or blood draws!? Is anyone else having this issue with Kaiser I’m not sure why I should have to pay that much for a...

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Any work from home job recommendations?

I'm a stay at home mom and my son is about to go to day care during the days I'm needing some at home work recommendations if anyone has any please!

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