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Mommy chat 💕

Anyone interested in joining our mom friends chat?

I’m looking for some more people to talk to through the day and also late night chats when we are bored! Also anyone from Oregon that wants to meet up I’m down for too! I’m currently a SAHM to 3 kiddos ☺️ message me if you wanna chat!

iPhone mommy gc

Who wants to be in a mommy gc it’s very active either pregnant or already have kids it doesn’t matter everyone is active and friendly 💕

Any takers?

Is there anyone on here that actually wants to start a genuine friendship?🥹

I’m sharing my story hoping to find another momma to talk to about things….

Before I got pregnant I found out that my (now) fiancé was messaging other girls and flirting with them. I have been in many HORRIBLE relationships so honestly the messaging didn’t really bother me much. We talked about it and moved on. At least that’s what I thought. We moved into a place together late July 2025, found out I was pregnant early August and by the end of September I had found out he went and slept with some chick and paid her $250 to finish in her. He did this before work one day which happened to be just hours after we had to go to the ER vet to have one of our guinea pigs put down… the only reason I found out either time was because I had went through his phone since we made an agreement in our relationship that we were allowed to at anytime (solely said this to give each other peace of mind). At this point I almost left him but he realized he has a problem and found a therapist that day to start going to so I stayed by his side. Well, it went from messaging girls from tinder to going through Reddit (I swear it’s the worst thing ever made at this point). It’s an official thing that he is a sex addict and him and his therapist have been working on things. This morning he calls me on his way to work while I’m exactly 2 weeks postpartum and primarily taking care of our daughter (because he works 10 hour shifts 5 days a week and an 8 hour shift on Saturdays with a little over an hour for driving one way, so he’s gone 12.5 hours a day) and tells me that he had confessed to someone he still has sexual desires for them but is not doing anything about it, granted this is progress with him being open about it but it doesn’t make it any easier to hear. I guess the girl screenshotted it so now I get to play the game of “who is going to send me a “hey girly” text”…… part of me just wants to ask him who it was but another part of me doesn’t want to know. I feel so much resentment towards him and I want to say I wish I never got with him in the first place but then I wouldn’t have my amazing baby girl and I genuinely can’t imagine my life without her. I’m just all over the place with thoughts so if anyone has dealt with anything similar to my situation or is just open to being support I would be beyond grateful to have someone to talk to.

Bestfriend

I haven’t had a bestfriend since 2023. It ended pretty bad and I’m willing to kind of break it down to anyone interested in finding a new best friend. I’m a new stay at home mom to a 7 month old. Still learning but don’t mind doing it with someone

Looking for Friends

Being a stay at home mom gets so lonely and overwhelming at the same time with 3 kiddos running around ! Looking for a bestie to chat with txt or calls maybe eventually FaceTime talk about anything let’s vent lol if your in NC that’s awesome, if not totally fine too

Also I may be a little shy at first lol not the best at making new friends but I need some!

Do you use reddit?

I use to use reddit a long time ago and then stopped because a lot of the commenters were either trolls or very determined to be mean to the original posters. One of them even commented "I have been watching you." And saying how they have been silently stalking my profile for a long time. Wtf. I am at a point where I think reddit is filled with people who are not who they say they are. They are either bots, trolls or angry teenagers. And some of them liked to twist peoples words or gaslight the crap out of OPs. I have witnessed this happen to other OPs too. Not just to myself.

Texting buddies or group chat?

SAHM, ready to be social again! Let’s be friends!

Anyone wants to be bestie

I am from Utah I’ve recently had my baby over a months ago prematurely and he is in the NICU and I would love to have a best friend I could talk to I’ve been feeling lonely lately since I even was pregnant and lost friends!

Venting

Is there someone I can talk to on here about being ghosted in pregnancy just someone to talk to it’s been hard on me

What would you personally do if your husband REFUSED to have sex with you every time you guys got pregnant?

I am talking about no sex at all for 9 months plus 3 months after giving birth.

BUT he still expects you to please him

Lack of sexy time

When you go a while without having sex with your man, how does he usually respond emotionally?

How many moms have been messaged by sellers ? Maybe a “boss babe” ?

I unknowingly “matched” with a mom earlier today. She messaged me and although she didn’t seem to be someone I could see myself being friends with, I decided to message back. She asked a lot of questions and I responded thinking I was coming out of my comfort zone and potentially making a new friend. All for it to end with her basically hinting at a work from home employment or selling of something. I politely declined before letting her get her full sales pitch out and then blocked her. I can’t say that her profile was real or fake. She has only been a member since this month. I just think it sucks to waste time messaging someone when the entire time they were trying to get something out of you.

Jesus loving friends

ISO real friends who love Jesus. I wanna have and be that friend that can discuss the struggles of life, but uplift and get ya laughing again.🫶 Always down for coffee meetup if you happen to be somewhere nearby ish. 😊

i wish i can open up on this app

but im scared of the judgement & the negative that comes with opening up about personal stuff. i barely have much people in my life to vent too or just to check in on. it gets depressing talking to yourself, but aye it is what it is right?

Mom Friends

Hello, I'm needing some mom friends. Alot of my friends aren't mother's and I feel like they can't really relate to me. I'm wondering if anyone wants to be friends? It'll be great to be able to make new friends.
I'm 33 years old, have 3 boys and live in Chicago

Mom friends

Okay I’m looking for a weird best friend!!!! I’m a stay at home mom! Type B. Near the paulding county area. So tired of being stuck at home. Just got over a bad depressive episode. Got the help I need. And looking for mom friends. I’m 32 and none of my friends have kids.

What am I going to do 😭😂

19 weeks pregnant, in the process of leaving my bd. We live together. I have a job, and a car so not too stressed about finding a place just stressed about what I’m going to do once I have the baby. I’m nervous he won’t help or he won’t watch her on the days I need help or if he’ll help with her financially. Which the only thing I’d need from him is to pick her up from daycare on the two days that work until 7pm