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Found out a month ago he was cheating. I was considering leaving. Then tonight he went out with friends. I grabbed his phone while grabbing the baby’s bottle

and just tonight he messaged someone on tinder, tried to go to the strip club with a friend and called some place at 1:30 for a massage

Need some validation or something cause I feel crazy

Encounter with a Weirdo

Today I had my first encounter with a weirdo! I was shopping baby clothes at Target with Julian when a guy (probably around 30) approached me. He complimented my belly and said his "wife" (he was alone) gets "baby fever" whenever she sees a pregnant woman. He kept asking when I was due and how I was feeling—so far, so good! I was polite and told him I felt fine and that I was due in three weeks. Then he started asking weird questions, like: - What does it feel like when she moves? - Do you feel butterflies? - Is it intense? - Can I touch your belly? One question after another. When he asked about touching my belly he was reaching out his hands to touch it. I took three steps back and said "No!" He quickly turned around and disappeared. For a moment, I thought he was actually going to touch my belly. It was the most bizarre encounter of my life!

Question

Anybody willing to take my baby girl for tonight? I’m overwhelmed and need her away from me. Phx Az

Cheating

Anybody else have the urge to cheat . Like never cheated before but are being treated so badly it makes you want to cheat ?

I need a bestie!

@Itz_mrs.jenna I want a genuine best friend who doesn’t ghost me after a day of talking! 🥹🫶🏼

Please help me I’m debating with a “male human” he likes to refer to himself

Do you believe we are here to have sex and only that only? Like there’s not so many other experiences of like that exceed feelings you experience in sex? Laughter has be studied to be more enjoyable/wholesome feeling then sex can. I’m here for opinions.

Texting buddies?

Anyone wanna be texting buddies 🫣. I need more mom friendsss ❤️

Feeling lonely and excluded

My husband and I were from different areas before we met, I moved in with him and now we have a beautiful baby. I have no friends or family nearby. My husband comes from a very large family and several of his family members had babies around the same time we did, which is nice but I never get included in any group events/outings/group chats. Even his mom I expected would want to stop by more often, but she doesn’t. I spend 24/7 with the baby and I love him to death but I rarely get adult conversation other than my husband. I feel like I am all alone as a new mom

Friends!

Looking for a friend to chat with. Im in Massachusetts, but long distance buddies are fine too!

Bestie?

I’m located in GA, Mcdonough/Griffin area. Lets make plans and get to know each other!

Lexapro (escitalopram)

Does anybody have any experience being on this antidepressant for their anxiety? I’ve been offered it by my GP and am in the process of thinking about it before I go back with my decision.

Christmas

Whats everyone getting their girls for Christmas for their main present. I so stuck as she has everything 🫠🙈

Would love to connect with women stuck between staying and leaving

Is anyone else currently separated or considering divorce, but keeps going back and forth about what to do?

I’d really love to connect privately with other women who are in that in-between stage too especially if you’re struggling with indecision, grief, guilt, missing them one minute and wanting to move on the next.

Would be nice to have someone who genuinely gets it, where we can support each other without judgement 🤍 Feel free comment then I'll message you.

baby groups

hey, can any one suggest any good baby groups based in nottingham. i drive so dont mind where, my sons only 6 weeks so more for me to get out the house at the moment 🫶🏻

Do you have (or have ever had) an std?

I'm curious on the statistics of it

Community?

Not sure I should even keep trying to make friends with anyone on here. Isn’t this a community? Not a place where you exclude people from being a part of the conversation? Ah well. It’s been a rough week. Sorry

Frustrating

I hate telling guys I’m married because every time I do they cut me off immediately. my husband is okay with me having male friends, and I tell the guys that but they still cut me off. Am I wrong for not wanting to tell guys I’m married ? Im not looking to cheat it’s just cool to have a guy friend 😩

Birthday cost

Is £300-£400 a normal amount to spend on your child’s birthday?

I think that’s so standard when you consider presents, clothes, decorations, cake and an outing. My partner thinks a 2 year olds birthday shouldn’t cost this much as they won’t remember it and I get what he’s saying but the cost of everything is so expensive I think it’s hard for it not to cost that much.

Thoughts?

2 mom families in NYC?

My wife and I would love to meet some 2 mom families in NYC! We are expecting our first, a girl, due March 2nd.

I don't want to sound.bittter, but i feel like no one cares about me

I m on my own, no real friends or family,the only interactions I have is with work colleagues,I feel like everyone are so loud about their issues and life's,they are so self obsessed,noone is interested in anything I ve got to say,I know everyone habe their own problems,I juts feel like I always listen and noone makes an effort with me