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Only child

Any one regret only having one baby ? I have a little boy and I’m worried he’s going to be lonely as an only child. I’m not sure if I want another baby but I am so close to my siblings and I don’t him to miss out on that relationship.

Talk me out of cheating

I have the perfect man, literally. But I feel like something is missing sexually he hardly ever initiates and it’s starting to get really boring with me always taking the lead. When I initiate his always tired or has a stomach ache. I’ve bought it up multiple times but nothing changes. I’m actually bored as hell. I’m craving attention from another man.

Tracking app

What app are people using to track sleep and feeds etc! I have been using huckleberry but I can't justify £15 a month whilst off with no income!

Dealing with an unsupportive boyfriend

Anyone’s boyfriend just completely disregard the fact you are pregnant? Mines making ‘jokes’ about who he’s with, where he is, saying things that make me feel distrustful and then plays it off as a joke? Told him numerous times it’s not funny, and apparently I’m overreacting when I say something about it, or I’m being ‘negative’, getting to the point I can’t actually be bothered dealing with him? Anyone had this or is he just a dick?

Mummy’s on SMP

How are we all affording life on SMP?!!? I was on 32k a year and now on £194.32 a week! I’m finding it so difficult to pay bills and also all the stuff my baby needs! As well with xmas coming up!

Looking for some new pals

My 3 closest IRL friends are all child free by choice. They are all great and let me talk about being pregnant etc but i always feel like im boring them with details and don’t feel like they truly get it. I can’t be the only one in this situation. Looking for people to chat with, maybe if there’s a few of us we could set up a group chat or something. I’m UK based but happy to speak to people from all over. Lmk if interested x

Who wanna join the chat group

Inbox

WARNING - Nala’s no rinse cleansing water

I’m a big fan of Mustela cleansing water, but I’ve run out and wanted to try an alternative from Nala.

My LO never had any reaction to Mustela, but the moment I’ve wiped her with Nala her skin turned bright red and it took a couple of hours to go down.

Just warning to others, always patch test and don’t try new things if you already have something that works well.

Christmas presents ideas

What is everyone buying their babies for their first Christmas?

Sex struggles

Yall im 7 weeks post partum and just tried to have sex and omg WTF!! It hurt and I felt like a virgin again!! Any tips I want to get back to being intimate but I can’t deal with the pain I made my husband stop!

Best friend needed asap!

Why yall keep adding me. Telling me that I’m your best friend. Tell me yall stories on how yall need friends. But then after a while just block me outta no where and waste my time. 🥲😂

Friends

Hey guys! I’m 25 mom of two, I’ve always struggled to make friends wondering if anyone else is like me? I can be literally the most crazy out of pocket ride or die type of friend who is always down for anything but can never make a genuine friendship due to my lack of communication. I’ve always struggled making conversation but it’s like once it’s started and continues back and fourth I’m amazing with it. I’m also the type of friend who loves all the drama, tea, happy moments, everything I love being the friend people come to vent to and I love having a friend that is always down for drama, tea, a vent session and being excited about all the things I’m excited about (excited for me type of thing) I also would love to describe myself as a friend who can see both sides of a story who can be like aye you was wrong for that but I see where your coming from type of thing I’ve always seen myself as understanding but not sugar coating. I’ve never really had much of any friends but I’ve always wanted and dreamed of having like one or two people that I can always come to about things. I’ve always dreamed of/ wanted the pajamas and sleepovers or dressed up just for coffee and a walk thru Walmart type of friend. Or the messy hair pajamas and a book in the company of a friend, or a friend that we can FaceTime all day never get bored of each other while we do whatever we are doing. I feel like it’s been harder to have friends since I’ve become a mom. I never realized how many people judge and leave you for how you parent (if it’s not the same way)

How to buy Christmas presents as a SAHM

How much should I spend on gifts for my in-laws?

Or do I even need to get my husband anything?

This will be the first time I spend Christmas as a SAHM and I have no clue also I need presents ideas please help!

How is it...

That I am a mother, works, takes care of my home by myself, responds neatly but every single girl I have matched with (mutual waves) on here cant even respond to me when I say hi. I got at least 20 sent messages and not a single one wants to talk

Best STAHM jobs!

I love my kids and I want to stay at home with them as long as possible, I have three LO. I am a Christian and want to stick to the biblical traditional role and be a proverbs 31 woman as much as I can.
Things are getting expensive for us as our family grows. Everything is so expensive and with one income we are kinda struggling. I’d like to know if anyone knows of any remote jobs that are helpful for busy moms like me!

Mom friends

Looking for mom friends if anyone want to talk?

Mothers who have lost a baby.

I recently lost a child at 5 days old. I am ruined and just so heartbroken. Are there any mothers who have lost babies? I want to be friends. None understands and people just expect me to move on as if nothing happened. I want to be understood! I

Looking for a friends to talk to over the phone

Anyone here from Australia nsw

Going Back to Work 5 Days a Week

Anyone else going back to work 5 days a week. I have no choice because of finances. A stay at home mummy has been making me feel bloody awful.

Dayton area girlies

Hi :) I'm 33 and want some mommas my age to hang out. I have a 4 year old and 6 month old twins. Full disclosure; sometimes I forget to text back because I might have opened the message at a red light, and my kids started crying, and I realized 3 days later. If you're like me, let's hang out at the park and do crafts (which are not mutually exclusive).