What’s on My Mind‼️
Hello, im not sure if someone will read or respond to this post but I just wanted to express how I been feeling with this app lately, I love that there is a lot of moms but at the same time it’s Kinda sad how we are so use to being alone or not wanting to actually interact with each other. I understand we are all busy moms, sometimes we want a quiet and alone time just to breathe stop over thinking so we can continue with our 24/7 routine. I just wish we would actually come up with something we can all do together as the beautiful women that we are, alot of us come here not to find friends for our kids to play with but to find a women that will understand and become a real friend who can you cry with, laugh with, joke with and talk to! Because we are not the same person that we were when our life changed with our kids! We all have a different problem, some don’t have a car, some don’t have enough money, some don’t have someone that could help take care of the kids because some of us have more than 2 kids that honestly it’s a lot more complicated. Hopefully we can become with a plan to help each other so we can meet all of us and have a great day for us.
Digital Village..
Anyone else feel like their so called ‘village’ is just text exchanges?
Don’t get me wrong, I love my friends and some days the text exchanges do save me from a menty-B .. but do I wish that they’d actually show up for me, and actually see me and my kids? Absolutely.
I’m fed up of the over the phone advice and text messages, I actually want to see my friends but even when I suggest that I’ll bring me and my two kids to see them, they cancel or just don’t have the time. But they always have the time for their other friends 😭😭
I got a message from one of my friends about doing something soon because ‘we never see each other’ but there’s never the effort to just come and hang out with me.
Just really struggling with life.. two kids is a lot, my husband works full time and then comes home to be super hands on that by the time the kids are in bed we’re both exhausted.
Neither of us have family close by to help. Just feels like a lot of friendships and the ‘village’ are just text messages.
Not exactly sure what I’m hoping to get from posting this, just one exhausted mama 😭😭
Looking for a bestie 🤍
Hi everyone! 🤍
I’m a proud boy mama to three amazing little guys ages 7, 3 and my sweet 1 month old baby. Life in our house is definitely loud, busy, chaotic at times… but so full of love and little moments I never want to forget. I’m married to my best friend and a stay-at-home mama from Fort Wayne who spends most days chasing kiddos, making memories, and trying to soak in every season of motherhood, even the hard ones. 🫶🏼I absolutely love being outdoors, whether it’s walks with the kids, park days, bonfires, road trips, zoo days, or just getting out of the house for some fresh air. Family time means everything to me, and I’m always looking for fun things to do with my boys and new places to explore. Traveling, making memories, cozy family nights, coffee runs, and spontaneous adventures are some of my favorite things. 💙
Motherhood has been the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done, but if I’m being real, it can also feel incredibly lonely sometimes. Between diapers, school schedules, sleepless nights, and pouring everything into your family, it can be hard to find genuine friendships and connections with people who truly understand this stage of life. I’m at a point where I’d really love to meet other moms and women who are kind, supportive, down to earth, and looking for real friendships too the kind where we can talk about life, laugh through the chaos, support each other, and maybe even plan playdates or little mom outings. 🥹I’m a very family-oriented person with a big heart, and I love deep conversations, making people feel included, and surrounding myself with positive energy. I’m probably happiest in comfy clothes with my babies nearby, music playing in the background, and a coffee in hand. ☕✨
Just a mama trying to navigate life, raise good humans, and find her village along the way. 🤍