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Bad visit with ex

So my ex visited yesterday. Baby was upstairs with my mom and he met me as I was entering the lobby of my building. He was upset because I wouldn’t let him inquire information about a security job position at my apartment building. So he was upset and mad the whole time. He was supposed to visit from about 5:15-8p...

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Cheating husband?

Salam sisters My LO is 8m old, and I suspect my husband still has contact with his EX who is also married and lives in another state. I’m a very private person so I don’t seek advisement from friends and family because I want to keep the respect of my husband for my child’s sake. I’ve caught him multiple times ema...

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😭 lost and confused

My husband admitted to cheating on me and swore it was only one time(this had happened months prior but he only admitted it then). I proceeded to stay because we had a kid and I was 18ish weeks with our 2nd. Well it turns out it happened more than once. The time he told me about, a time before that. And then a time ...

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Is it just me?

I've been on here for about a good year or so now, and everytime I match with someone either two scenarios follow: 1) we have great conversation and even meet up for just once and then never again. 2) we have okay conversation then never get a reply back ever again. Has anyone had successful friendships come about o...

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Baby daddy advice

I dunno what it is but I see so many posts on here with women seeking support with difficult situations/abusive relationships, and it’s frustrating to see every single comment always kicking off about the man, telling her to leave him and never look back ect.. as if it’s so easy. I never see any comments genuinely...

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For people with long term relationships

How many times has your husband or significant other messed up in your relationship. I’m just curious if other couples also have issues. & to be clear not like messing up in the house or something I’m saying a mess up revolving another person maybe not cheating but just something they shouldn’t be doing

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Need Advice from SAHMs

I need some advice from my SAHM, so I was thinking of quitting my part time job so I can stay home and take care of my baby girl and relax from work. This job has this new policy where they can fire you for how many time you’re late for work or how many time you called out. So to me it doesn’t matter if your kid is ...

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Hexing

I know this is controversial. How do yall feel about hexing/cursing abusers?

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Looking for mum friends

Feeling like I need to make new friends I have a 6 week old boy xx

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Any one been to the gruffalo trail at bedgebury?

Is it any good?

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Mom friends !

ADD ME 😂 Fowlerville area ! Looking for mom friends to talk to or hangout ! I been married 4 years I have a 6 1/2 month old he work solar fields 5 to 6 days a week 12 hour days so I’m always home with the baby just doing mom shit I’m very outgoing definitely down to earth person ! On my husband’s off days we love…

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Friendships

Is it just me that feels lonely and finds it so hard to form friendships with people now you get older? Really struggle and then think it’s something that I have done!😔

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Powell TN

Looking for a mom friend that I can chill with. With or without the kids maybe errands dates where we can get our things don’t but together. I just moved to here from Oregon and have no friends out here. I am married and have a son, currently living with my parents and hoping soon to move out.

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Friends !

Anyone interested in being friends , as a mom or FTM rather in my almost thirties lol I’m just in a new wave and trying to find like minded people to meet and grow with !!

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I think I got my bfp!!

Please please be it.

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Am I over reacting?

My partner, has a low sex drive and I always instigate it sex, the majority of the time he says no when I try… even if I wear sexy lingerie or try and make a specific effort. He recently lost his job and has been using that as an excuse to not have sex with me… due to stress etc. I caught him yesterday watching ...

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