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Actually hate my MIL

She is just such a bitch Everything I have said to her is important to me for my children she does the opposite off. She makes comments on all the food I make for my LG says how disgusting it is to my baby etc. We had such a good relationship before I had my baby now I just can’t stand her.

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Sex and getting wet

I have been suffering really bad anxiety and depression since I was 18 and I’m 28 now. Been married for 2 years and have had no libido the whole time and even when we have sex nothing turns me on. Even if I eventually have an orgasm using a vibrator I’m not mentally turned on and I will remain bone dry. My husband i...

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No sex drive

So since I was pregnant up until now (1 year postpartum) I have literally zero sex drive. I hate being touched, kissed and at this point even hugged. My partner wants to cuddle but as soon as I feel his “member” it makes me feel angry tbh. Has anyone else gone through this? I don’t want my partner to think I don’t l...

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??

Hey! My last period was 9/13 and I just had unprotected sex on 9/21 and I have a positive test😭 is this real??? Hahahaha

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Group chat

Hi loves was wondering who would be interested in creating a group chat on Snapchat? Hoping to create some friendships! Feel free to comment your @ below ❤️

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Walks and coffee

Hi, I’m a new mum and looking for new mums in the Poole area to go for walks and coffee 😄

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Hi(:

I’m so burnt out. I need some girl time, play dates, chit chats. Anyone want to be friends? lol

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Bookbug

What bookbugs are on today? The online page won't load properly for me 🙈

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Baby groups Southampton/Hythe

I live in Hythe and have a 2week old little boy. Looking for recommendations of any baby/parent groups around the area ( New Forest/ Southampton City Centre). I haven't been in the area long so would be nice to meet other mums. Also if anyone has childminder recommendations that take babies from 6months old, would...

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🤔🤔🤔

Hey! Would any mamas be interested in starting a group text chat? We can keep each other company, share tips and tricks, and just have a place to vent or celebrate the wins of motherhood. Let me know if you're in, and we can kick off this awesome mom squad! 🙌🏼😊 Also could turn into playgroups/meetups? Honestly…

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Mom friend much needed

Anyone want to hang out? I work during the week. I have two kids. I have them half the time so I can bring them or when I do not have them I can come solo. We can go on walks, we can make dinner, get coffee, hike, basically down for anything. 🙃🙃

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Intimate time

Hi! My husband and I just had our second child in September. With the first, we were like teenagers during the 6 weeks where I wasn’t cleared for sex. We couldn’t seem to get enough of each other and constantly were wanting to rip each others clothes off. We didn’t until I was cleared but I’d finish him off with bl...

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Would it bother you?

If you had a sex buddy and sometimes he didn’t cum? Would you think it was you. I know it’s not my man and I shouldn’t be that worried but I just feel bad with him leaving unsatisfied. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Sex life troubles?

My husband and I’s sex life has taken a serious toll in the last month. I’m currently almost 30 weeks and we haven’t had any sort of intimacy in almost 6 weeks when we used to at least 2-3 times a week. When I confronted him about it, he was honest and said he just hasn’t been as attracted to me since I got so much ...

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New here

Looking to connect with other young first time mamas struggling to socialise or make friends, whose social awkwardness enables their social anxiety, 420 friendly 🙂

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Orgasm

I finally orgasmed with my man and it felt so amazing. I was missing out on a lot. I use a vibrator and he finally stopped being selfish during sex.

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