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Cheated on

Would you confront the woman your man cheated on you with, knowing she knows yall are together and just had a baby?

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Mummy friends ❤️

, I’m 23 and I’m a mum to a 4 year old girl. I’m looking for other mums within my area, to meet up with for coffees or play dates. I’m young and I don’t really have anyone else who’s in a similar situation to myself. Being a mum can be lonely and isolating, so would love to meet other people🥰

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No sex in marriage

Me And my Husband are very distant from each other. Didn’t do sex from so many months. Have one 1 year old baby. Things were same starting the starting. He was never very excited about it. I know I am beautiful and attractive. Normally when ever it happens we start saying things to women that you are doing something...

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Is therapy working?

I have been having therapy meetings for about a month and I do feel like starting to see the person I want to be but ! My partner said he will never do therapy again no matter what. I feel like I should not be the only one working on their self I am changing and he is just the same person and, I don’t even see me s...

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Hello Mami friends I have a question 🧐

So my cousin and I have grown up like sisters...we are closer than her and her actual sister are...she is god mom to my soon...she has been with this guy for 8 months with 3 breakups. he moved into her apartment for a while then he got kicked out for going back to his baby mom...then he moved back in. 3 weeks ago sh...

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Cheated on

Hey mommas. Would you confront the woman your man cheated on you with, knowing she knows yall are together and just had a baby?

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Pregnancy experience

Do you ever see someone post something happy about pregnancy get sad because you’re partner ruined your pregnancy experience? idk if anyone here watches Mama Karl’s on tiktok but she just posted a little gender reveal with her son and husband and they were all so excited and it has me sobbing because I didn’t even g...

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Advice Wanted: My Son’s Father Is Neglecting His Responsibilities

I'm seeking advice on my situation with my son's dad. He has been a deadbeat and a terrible person throughout our relationship. I went through two miscarriages before successfully getting pregnant with my son. I later discovered that he had been dating another woman throughout our relationship, along with many other...

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What would y’all do?

My husband and I have a one bedroom and share our room with our 6 month old daughter. He randomly said that when our baby starts walking he wants her out in the living room. I told him no and he pretty much said that I will be choosing my daughter over my husband and then and he is “done”. What are your mommas thoug...

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i love my bd so much

omgg i can’t get over this man, i broke up with him when i first got pregnant (last year), and was going through a psychotic episode. we have had literally no contact since, only time we talk is when i reach out and we always end up arguing. he’s said some really mean things to me and i’m having an induction to give...

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Where are the pregnant, or new moms hanging out?

I need to meet new friends ladies and trying on here I tend to just hermit myself. Are there any birthing classes, lactation classes? Idk something where all the new pregnant mamas are hanging out near the Norridge area, I’m willing to go out to the suburbs, it’s time to go out and make friends again. I have been hi...

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anyone else finding pregnancy so overwhelming?

I’m not gonna lie, since finding out I am pregnant I’ve lost a lot of good people including my mother. I’m only 21 and the one lady I looked to for guidance passed away so suddenly. Now that I don’t drink a lot of my friends aren’t as interested and I’ve just felt SO messed up and alone. My partner was arrested and ...

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Advice please ..🙏

I’d only been with my boyfriend for 4 months when I got pregnant and since having our baby I haven’t felt sexual at all. I was stitched in 3 places from giving birth, I’m currently breastfeeding. Not only that, my mum also died at the age of 62 exactly one month before my little one was born so I’m struggling a bit ...

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Telegram- possible cheater 🤷🏼‍♀️

A bit of a weird one so bear with me. I’m currently 6 months postpartum and I’ve noticed that my partner has been weird, like he doesn’t want me anymore or find me attractive. We had intimacy since having baby however it just doesn’t feel the same. So I did a snoop in his phone (due to past issues long before preg...

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Clarks

Taking my little boy to get his first shoes next week and I’ve seen online that Clark’s have a booking system where you book a time slot online, im not sure what time I’m going to go to Clark’s tho, are you able just to turn up? TIA X

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Sex Drive non existent 🙃🙃

So my baby girl is nearly one and me and my partner have literally had sex like 4 times ! I just have absolutely no desire for it or want it if I’m honest. Anybody els gone through a non existent sex drive or just me ? 😆😑👌

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