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From the community

Recent discussions

Should I stay or?

So me and my fiancé have been together a year and a half and I’m 8 months pregnant. For the last few months my fiancé has been intrested in his computer/games and online friends. When I say this I mean I ask him for a cuddle around 8pm and don’t get one until about 1am, I have to beg for his attention. We have loans for Christmas time and the start of summer and I’m the only one repaying it for us even though he has half of the loan. (I pay £50 every Monday to repay the loan). He was given a course and did the whole course by the job centre and now has decided he doesn’t want to work and want to live on benefits for the rest of his life but I don’t want that (not that there’s anything wrong with living on benefits) but while all he does all day is play on his game otp with his friends on discord I’m doing online courses to get my qualifications to work my dream job. We no longer see eye to eye on what we want and I try to explain how I feel to him but he doesn’t listen. I love him so much but I don’t know if I can give up the life I want for him since he isn’t willing to compromise. Please tell me what I should do.

It’s not fair❤️‍🩹

So I recently found out that my child’s father has been actively sleeping with different women during my pregnancy and as well trying to talk to me, get me to support him help him in the same breath. And that he actively communicates and possibly sleeps with one of the women that I work with. I do not want to take maternity pictures with him. I don’t want him to sit by me at the baby shower and I feel like that’s not a problem it’s very hard to explain the pain that I’m going through. Two days after we broke up I found out I was pregnant and in that process he has sex with someone else and it was the girl that I work with. I don’t know how strong I am at this point, but I guess I’m finding out. This hurts because people asked me at one point in time did I believe in having a family and is that why I kept supporting him. And the answer is yes. But now due to the circumstances. I want nothing to do with him.

Young Moms

Hey Guys I would love to find moms around the same age as me. A lot of the people my age don't understand that I can't go out everynight and I would love if I could hang out with someone that understands me

what is love 🙃

how do you know if you love someone
what if you’ve fallen out of love but also can that love be bought back?!
going through something with my partner long story short someone asked if i love him and i even hesitated like, do i? i wasn’t like yeah i do i mean i said i did but how do iknow if i do🥴what if i dont 🤷🏾‍♀️
i cant love him if im not even sure that i love him..?

Real friendship

Hello moms. I’m Kim, I’m 35, and I live in Belgium.
I have a daughter who turns three next Saturday.
I’m genuinely looking for friendship—not the kind where contact stops after just two sentences.

Hi I’m Tiffany and looking for mommy friends

I live in the area of Morgantown wv

bestie💋

Anyone want to be besties?!🥹💋 I’m open to any kind of bestie!

New friends ? 👯‍♀️

Text or drop your instagram. IG:Its_annarose_

MIL Advice

I’ve been with my partner for 6 years. We had a rough time around a year in due to his mental health, but he is doing so well now and we’re stronger than ever!
There have been a few things that his mum has said, and now I don’t want to see her or spend time with her alone. I just wanted everyone’s thoughts.
The first thing was when we got the mortgage. My partner received an inheritance, but I put in the exact same amount towards the deposit because I helped him pay off his car, which removed a bill before we applied for the mortgage. She told him we shouldn’t have gone 50/50 because of this, giving him more financial security.
I moved on from it as I thought, she just wants the best for her son.

We planned this pregnancy and have saved over £10,000 for financial security. The majority of the savings are from me as I have a higher income. I do not mind this, as I’ll be taking a full year off work, and him contributing means a lot because it allows me to.

We have since gotten along well, including her messaging me decor ideas and gardening tips.

When we told her I was pregnant, she cried. I knew it was because she wasn’t happy, but my partner wanted to hope that she was just processing. Still, she congratulated us.

A few weeks later, she told him she was worried he was going to be ‘trapped’ and end up paying ‘child maintenance.’
He stood up for me and told her this was way out of line.
She apologised and said it wasn’t her intention, and that she was just worried about his mental health. For context, at the beginning of the year he was extremely low; this was all as a result of his employer treating him awfully. He has a new job and is THRIVING, back to my weird, happy, and hyperactive partner.
She said she made those comments because she was worried about his mental health and the pressure on our relationship. Despite the fact that I was the one here.. every day supporting him and getting him through it, whilst she called him once or twice a week to check in. She ended up staying at ours for a week so he wasn’t alone which I was grateful for. But she only experience a week of it, I got him through almost 3 months until he started his new job.

The comments felt very personal because I grew up on a council estate and in an abusive household and she knows that. In my opinion, if that’s what she was worried about, that’s what she should have said. But given everything I have done to support him, the comments aren’t justified in my opinion.

She then blamed her upbringing and how her life has been so hard, including the divorce from his dad. She’s very negative about his dad and refuses to see him, even though it would mean missing her own daughter’s wedding.

My partner still talks to her, and I don’t expect him to stop. She has not sent me a single message—not even an apology—since. It’s been weeks.

My stance is that I will go to family gatherings if she is there, but I will not make any trips to see her or stay at her house like we used to. She can see the baby as much as she likes, but I don’t want to see or speak to her unless I have to. She doesn’t even know if she’s going to hold the baby, as she’s also said she doesn’t like babies. I won’t let her impact my daughter.

My partner understands and won’t push it, but I still feel bad.

For me, because I grew up abused, I’m not willing to be treated or spoken about like that. Had she apologised, I could have moved on, but she’s made no contact with me since.

Am I being unreasonable?

Friends

Im really struggling.. I really dont have friends. I live in central 209, and we dont really leave or do much. I miss having friends. I miss my kid having a friend, too😮‍💨 I'm not a picky person. Jesus is at the center of my life, so meeting a friend who also loves Jesus is really important to me. Other than that, we just need some company 😢

Texting buddies

I need more friends to talk to!! Anyone wanna be texting buddies? Maybe even become close friends???
27 with a 3 yr old and a 1 month old (:

iMessage group

If I created a nonjudgmental, highly supportive iMessage group, would anyone be interested in joining?

iMessage group

If I set up a nonjudgmental and highly supportive iMessage group, would anyone want to join?

This app

I’m starting to feel like communicating on this app absolutely sucks. It’s like everybody’s all “ looking for mom friends “ and then the radio silence. I’m like txt me let’s hang out and nothing.

How do moms make friends at 40?

I’m 40, have a 5-year-old, and recently moved back after living overseas. I’m finding it surprisingly hard to build a social life!

I’ve tried connecting with moms from my daughter’s school, but I’m really looking for friendships beyond just talking about our kids. I miss having a group of friends to chat about life, laugh, go out, and just enjoy adult conversations.

I also work full-time, so those 3 PM weekday playdates aren’t an option for me.

I’d love to hear how other working moms have made genuine friendships. Where do you meet people? How do you find your circle at this stage of life?

Trapped outside and bored

Im stuck outside and so bored, im on my 5th joint and wanna talk to someone 🤣😅 anyone want to call or video chat?

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