Also if you use oil, use something light like grape seed oil or argon oil. Stay away from using coconut oil straight. It can make her hair feel dry and brittle.
I use Not Your Mothers for my kids. I also use their hair mask as well. I put it in my daughters hair after I shampoo it, and let it sit there for like 10 minutes before I rinse it off. I also brush it out when it has conditioner in it and when it is wet. When she comes out the shower, I also put leave in conditioner in her hair as well.
Rizos Curls are the best !! I use it in my kids hair. You can find it at Target, Amazon, Ulta or even through their own website rizoscurls.com
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