Anyone else’s toddler struggle with settling down for naps and bed time

My toddler doesn’t do too bad at nap time but at bed time she has the hardest time settling down and sometimes it takes me 1-2 hours to put her to bed. She has a basic same bed time routine bath book bed that she’s done her whole life. I’ve taken away screen time and sugary drinks and tried just about everything google says (😂 I’m a google mom ) I haven’t done melatonin or anything like that but I just mean like whatever I can do naturally to help her I’ve tried. Any suggestions ??
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is she in a bed or crib? My daughter is 2 and in a bed. We do her routine and put her to bed. Sometimes she walks/rolls around her bed for 1–1.5hrs but she’s not crying so we leave her. On the rare times that she does cry, one of us will go in and give her another hug and kiss. When we transitioned to a bed from the crib, we put all toys in her closet so all she has in her room at bedtime is books and plushies

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She’s in a bed but she’s overly clingy she wants Someone to be touching her the whole time she’s trying to fall asleep whether it’s holding her hand or her face. She was will get up and jump around or try to get out of bed and run off. And lately we’ve been waking up to her in our bed in the middle of the night too

We are going through the same thing since we just transitioned her crib to a toddler bed. It takes about 45 minutes to fully be able to close her bedroom door without her crying and getting out of bed. We have heard that if you keep saying, it's time to go to sleep, you have to lay down over and over again and don't engage in any other way the child will eventually get that there is no reward for continuing to get out of bed. It's exhausting and stressful.

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It’s hard! I get so frustrated because all she wants to do is play and she keeps the same bed time routine we rarely ever sway from it

We followed litte z's sleep help and that has done the trick! Routine for us is actually bath, pj, playtime 10 min(which is generous because it makes them want to get out of bath and go through playtime, book time, some silly light ls off fun, airplane into bed and he is out. They recommend a crib until 3 so we just followed that. Hope that helps!

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