So I’ve recently gone back to work from my maternity leave. I work full time as a manager where I’m often gone 9 hours out of the day. I’m also pumping while I’m at work and In between feeds when I get home from work. Also playing with baby giving her a bath and putting her to bed, which leaves me exhausted by the end of the night. How do you ladies continue to have a healthy sex life with your Significant others while balancing mommy hood and everyday life?
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Cypress, United States
5 months ago
You’re not alone! It’s exhausting, tiring, frustrating and all of the above but you just have to make the time and it’ll get easier as the babies get older. It’s just really important to keep the spark alive in my opinion. It’s easy to go without months of sex if it’s the same ol’ same ol’ and no romance or passion. But the Same way it takes effort and hard work to maintain a clean house, the same goes for your sex life and both of you have to do your part to keep the sex alive.
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R
Fairy Meadow, Australia
5 months ago
Becareful! Partner and I finally made time for sex and I am pregnant again. Pretty much had a 3 month break
J
Witney, United Kingdom
5 months ago
It is very tiring I can’t believe there are so many of us mummies that work full time and feel exactly the same I’m also in the same boat I work full time and have two children.
We try to spice things up with more toys and and games but sometimes it’s just really hard to make time!
S
Walkersville, United States
5 months ago
Omg SAME. Like who has the energy 😫 my husband is very understanding of a lot of things but this is not one of them. It’s one of those “it’s not you, it’s me” situations but you just gotta pull together a bit of energy & make it happen tbh.
D
North Branford, United States
5 months ago
I go through times when it's all the time and then we get out of the habit because I fall asleep before he comes to bed. It is a rollercoaster and he gets so mad when we don't have sex. I am just always so tired from working full time and doing everything around house and for kids!
You’re not alone! It’s exhausting, tiring, frustrating and all of the above but you just have to make the time and it’ll get easier as the babies get older. It’s just really important to keep the spark alive in my opinion. It’s easy to go without months of sex if it’s the same ol’ same ol’ and no romance or passion. But the Same way it takes effort and hard work to maintain a clean house, the same goes for your sex life and both of you have to do your part to keep the sex alive.
Becareful! Partner and I finally made time for sex and I am pregnant again. Pretty much had a 3 month break
It is very tiring I can’t believe there are so many of us mummies that work full time and feel exactly the same I’m also in the same boat I work full time and have two children. We try to spice things up with more toys and and games but sometimes it’s just really hard to make time!
Omg SAME. Like who has the energy 😫 my husband is very understanding of a lot of things but this is not one of them. It’s one of those “it’s not you, it’s me” situations but you just gotta pull together a bit of energy & make it happen tbh.
I go through times when it's all the time and then we get out of the habit because I fall asleep before he comes to bed. It is a rollercoaster and he gets so mad when we don't have sex. I am just always so tired from working full time and doing everything around house and for kids!