Baby blues????

My baby girl is now 9 days old, and started a few days ago out of the blue started crying for no reason, I had my mum and my sister come visit that same day too. It seems I’m finding having people or family visit or going to visit family so hard, anxiety and crying. Even today came to see the in laws, park up and I burst into tears and can’t face taking her in there. She’s my 4th baby but with a 10 year gap between her and my last and I was never like this with my others. I know friends and family are excited to meet her but I just can’t cope with it and the thought of someone else apart from me and her other mum holding her. I just can’t bare but then feel terrible cancelling visits and plans. It does get better doesn’t it?

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Hey, I think you should limit visiting for a while. I told everyone I am not comfortable meeting until the baby is a few weeks old and we are settled. It is okay to prioritise your choice at this time. I am a FTM and can understand what u hoing through. I cry everyday but carry on only in the hope that it will get better with time. You are not alone mama!

Girl I’m so with you on this !! This is my second baby he’s almost 3 weeks old and I have a 10 year age gap and I’m really struggling with anxiety 😥 I know it will get better but telling your self that when your running on empty is hard enough to believe! I know we will get through this it’s just hard having a newborn I don’t care how many you have had it’s still different and difficult 😞 we have got this mumma stay strong 💪🏼🥰❤️ xxx

Thankyou both, glad it isn’t just me ❤️

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Thankyou and same to you x

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