But you don’t ask him to get these things you tell him you’re going to the store to get it and expect him to say it’s ok I will… if you need it , ask and be straight up and if he denies to then there’s your problem. Also you said it took a lot out of you to respond nicely so I assume you would of cursed him back, so what makes you better than him? I think you both just need better communication and you not picking up his calls constantly is clearly getting to him and not helping the situation. I don’t think he’s completely out of line here he just wants to speak to his son… But then again there may be more to the story than I know.
I get it. My baby daddy is the same way. In some cases, I’d say was, but it’s still there. He just expresses them a little differently. But I had to be the bigger person and change first (though he denies I did). I take time away from him when needed where I just don’t respond for some hours until I’m ready. I try to deescalate or avoid all negativity. He’s had some times where he doesn’t talk to me for some time as well. Come back when the respect can be mutual and you miss your baby. Otherwise, stay away. Simple.
@Macdalia he can’t have a peaceful conversation to save his life. He doesn’t know what peace is. He thinks everything he does and says is right and I’m just not about to go back and forth with him all the time, it’s draining. He never sees no wrong in what he does and feels entitled if you can’t tell from the messages
I think y’all need to have a peaceful conversation. You do not need to get out of character and once he starts getting out of character, tell him you’re not there/talking to argue with him, but for you both to get a better understanding.
You better than me! I literally don’t even ask anymore but he be having the audacity to think I’m supposed to help him all the time the epiphany of selfish.