To speak or not to speak to him again until he apologizes? Opinions

What’s wrong with these men. It took everything in me not to go off on this man and curse him out but I played nice in case the courts ever have to be involved. They can see him acting a fool instead of me. It bothers me that he just ignored my comment about him not seeing if my son needs anything or offering to pay for his pull-up and wipes or anything else he might need when I mention it. This man has some nerve though like who does he really think he is. Provide for your son when he isn’t around you and maybe I’m make more of an effort to not miss any calls. It honestly wasn’t deliberate, I just had a real busy night and wasn’t on my phone. I think the main reason he acted like that was cause it was his grandpas birthday and I think he was there but still no excuse to treat and talk to me like that. He hasn’t talked to me like that about missing a call in a while so I’m sure that was the reason. I take care of my son from sun up to sun down and I’m not always on my phone so for him to think that taking care of a kid isn’t work and I don’t get busy, he’s a damn fool. I do everything for our son so to get talked to and treated like this is like a slap in the face. I make sure my baby boy is always straight and always has what he needs. He should be very appreciative of that and treat me really good. And no I’m not doing what he says and just giving my son my phone unattended.

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3 months ago

You better than me! I literally don’t even ask anymore but he be having the audacity to think I’m supposed to help him all the time the epiphany of selfish.

4 months ago

But you don’t ask him to get these things you tell him you’re going to the store to get it and expect him to say it’s ok I will… if you need it , ask and be straight up and if he denies to then there’s your problem. Also you said it took a lot out of you to respond nicely so I assume you would of cursed him back, so what makes you better than him? I think you both just need better communication and you not picking up his calls constantly is clearly getting to him and not helping the situation. I don’t think he’s completely out of line here he just wants to speak to his son… But then again there may be more to the story than I know.

4 months ago

I get it. My baby daddy is the same way. In some cases, I’d say was, but it’s still there. He just expresses them a little differently. But I had to be the bigger person and change first (though he denies I did). I take time away from him when needed where I just don’t respond for some hours until I’m ready. I try to deescalate or avoid all negativity. He’s had some times where he doesn’t talk to me for some time as well. Come back when the respect can be mutual and you miss your baby. Otherwise, stay away. Simple.

4 months ago

@Macdalia he can’t have a peaceful conversation to save his life. He doesn’t know what peace is. He thinks everything he does and says is right and I’m just not about to go back and forth with him all the time, it’s draining. He never sees no wrong in what he does and feels entitled if you can’t tell from the messages

4 months ago

I think y’all need to have a peaceful conversation. You do not need to get out of character and once he starts getting out of character, tell him you’re not there/talking to argue with him, but for you both to get a better understanding.