Boyfriend going on lads holiday

Yeh I'd be fuming!!!!!! I let my partner do what he wants really and relaxed about anything he wants to do, but 10 days is a long time. A long weekend wouldn't be so bad but yeh that is not fair on you whatsoever!x

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I try to be that girlfriend too and most of the time I am, I just hate this party side of him and ten days at home with baby while he’s drunk around girls in bikinis partying?! No

Ask him who’s having the baby😂 id be lividdd🫠

Did he even discuss with you in beforehand? 10 days is way too long unless it’s work related. I’d be letting him know that you’ll now be going away for 10 days with your friends.

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Nope first time I heard about it was on the phone. I say that exact thing to him and he says “okay enjoy” because he knows I would never leave our baby like that

Without asking you first?! Yeah that's not cool. Takes two to make a baby and parenting is a partnership.

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Yeah no mention of it. I feel like he thinks he can just make whatever plans and I’ll be okay with it. He knows I’m not going anywhere I’m just sat at home with our baby, it’s so frustrating

I’d be fuming he didn’t ask first but I’d not have a problem with my bf going on a lads holiday, as I’d happily go on a girls holiday. He deffo should have sorted dates etc with you first and ensured you felt comfortable having your baby on your own for so many days.

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When your boyfriend goes on lads holidays what are they doing there? I think my issue is all his friends are single and will be interested in meeting girls and they will be going to beach parties .. it’s just not what I want my boyfriend to be doing when I’ve just had his baby 🙈 x

I’d be livid if my husband booked a jolly like that without talking to me first, especially with a first baby where you’re still learning the ropes and need a hand. I’m staying away from home with our 12 week and nearly 3 year olds next week for two weeks because our bathroom is being refitted and I can’t not bath/shower during that time, let alone deal with the noise and dust. My husband will stay home to make sure it all goes ok and I’m staying at my mum’s house as she’s on holiday. I think I’ll probably be begging him to come join us after a couple of days 🫠 But yeah, I wouldn’t turn around and tell my husband I’m off on holiday and leave him with the kids without talking it through first. Also it depends on when as if baby is 6m+ and has a routine that’s not so bad as its (hopefully) between sleep regressions.

Tbf id not be worried if my Bf went with single lads as I fully trust him. If I went on a girls holiday with single girls it wouldn’t revolve around finding men so I wouldn’t expect it to be like that the other way around! And if it was I know he wouldn’t cheat and wouldn’t do anything wrong! 😊