Question for the group (honest answers)

This group was always for trying to conceive your first baby and myself included found that other group / members with children just didn’t understand how emotional it is trying for your first and struggling. I have been removing women from the group who already have babies / children and Ben asked why and explained that someone with a child just won’t understand that these women won’t want advice. I’m not going to lie to you all. I myself had a child but I’ve stayed away from comments and posts as it’s no longer my place. I Just monitor the group to keep it safe. What I want to know is. Am I doing the right thing? Do you want it to be just first time mums? Do you like advice from women who’ve had children? (Personally I never did) Please let me know. If someone has children should they leave or stay?