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4 months ago

Annoying my Partner

My husband is incredibly supportive / invested in this process, but our personalities are such that I’m an external processor and he is not—which leads to me obsessing and talking about TTC and all the new info I read, like CONSTANTLY. I can’t shut up about it and it’s starting to get on their nerves. How have y’all combatted getting too obsessed with the process? Thought getting on this app would help me, but now I just have MORE info I want to share with him.
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4 months ago

I talk to some people in my area on peanut and I talk with my best friend too. My husband wants to know some of it but sometimes I feel like it’s all I want to talk about and so few people know about us trying that I have to save it all up to talk to him about. He’s being a good sport but if you have a friend to talk to I’d suggest it! Especially if they already have kids or are pregnant!

4 months ago

Same!! I’m trying so hard not to scare or overwhelm him. He’s a great sport and never says anything but he will change the subject, making me think he’s not wanting this info. Like you said, I’m just too excited about TTC and like having all the info. I would love to conceive sooner rather than later and so I feel with him informed, it will help! 😅

4 months ago

I hear you!! I try to keep what I share with my husband to things I know will interest him and I try to talk with my mom or friends about the other things. It’s easier said than done. Lol Have you tried blogging or journaling? Maybe taking notes on what you’re learning could help you process some?

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