I think the thought of having a baby hits so much differently than ACTUALLY having one. I was so excited to try and waited for that little line forever but when it was actually there it totally freaked me out 🤣. He probably does want a baby and I don't think he would be a bad dad at all considering he is already worried about it, he's probably just stressing over the unknown 💜
If you have family or friends with younger kids, try to spend some time with them! Maybe some of his fears come from lack of experience with children. I knew a friend like that - he had never even changed a diaper so it was scary!
It’s good you’re trying to talk to him about why he’d be a good dad! maybe try exploring his fears, validate them, share your own fears and how you’re right there by him to help him through it.
It really gets your mind going when it could be real! I want a baby so bad but still have those thoughts every now and then!! It’s not just a little thing!! I think it’s normal to feel that way!