@Beth It feels like she doesn’t understand what private space and boundaries are. I wouldn’t be putting up with this. I’d probably would have said that I wasn’t a seamstress and didn’t want to see her in her bra 😂
@Amanda honestly! Like seriously how can they not see even a tiny bit how this is completely unacceptable! She came to ask me if her new bra fit ok too... I told my husband and said I was uncomfortable with her asking me if her bra looks OK. And he just said "yeah she asked me too" like???? What 🤣 how can he think that's normal
I get how you feel. I have a mother in law who tries to be like that. Again it's a culture thing I think (my husband is Indian) but I'm lucky in that part of the reason my husband's previous marriage broke up was due to her interfering parents. Therefore he shuts his mum down quite quickly if she starts, it doesn't stop her saying things though. The last criticism I had was that my husband is always cooking when she calls (husband explained I was with baby so he was cooking) she replied that these modern women are so weak because in her day she did everything! Hmm. Choosing to rise above the rage and billion retorts I could make about how happy she wasn't and the type of relationship she had with her husband (abusive) and remind myself she's saying it because she's jealous.
This has really annoyed me! I’m Spanish and I find her behaviour completely disrespectful. Your partner really needs to grow up, start respecting you as the mother of his child and stand up to his psycho mum. I would not be welcoming her into my house after manipulating your partner to go against your wishes and taking your baby off you as if she’s the mum! It’s so out of order! And don’t get me started with the too washed sheets?! What’s this about?! 😂
These mil are bat shit crazy you need to set boundaries now!!!!