I believe you can work through this. Channel your energy somewhere else for the time being. Maybe stop trying so hard and see if he notices (now this is just me).
He’s not his dad n your not his mum but it’s good you are trying as it means there’s still feelings there from your side. See I don’t even have that in me xxx
Exact same position exact pretty much mines an arsehole put me through hell in pregnancy but I feel very stuck it’s so hard we have a mortgage my older lad is sort of attached to him n we have a lil girl together I only work part time n absolutely no where offers anyone any help with housing no more so it seems so yeah I feel trapped xx
@Zuleika we've tried couples therapy, everytjing! I try and invite him for date nights, try do nice things inside the house, nothings ever good enough there's always something to complain at or always something "better" he could be using the time for. It's like talking to a brick wall! Everything just goes back to what his mum would do "well my mum was fine with my dad doing this"... etc!
I'd be saying well good for your mother but I'm not your mom and I'm not here to wipe ur backside so here's the hoover and mop and crack on cos that's what my dad did 😂😂