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Do you ladies allow your kids to sleep over at your in laws house ? My sister and brother in law are kinda in the wild young early 20 years btw.
My mother in law keeps insisting that my 15 month old sleeps over her house cuz she wants to sleep with him and I told her that I have to be under the same roof wherever he is at..am I being too uptight ?
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Learn more about our guidelines.Yes mine does at my parents house. Not as much as she use too but she has spent the night there w out me plenty of times. wish I got more help. It’s nice. Communication is key and that’s y I feel fine w her being there bc my parents get in touch w me fast when I check to see how my baby girl is doing. As for my in-laws not so much. They do watch her but not overnight
No your not being too uptight I get wanting to be with him whenever because he’s little but I sometimes let my son go to my moms overnight but that started at 8 months not when he was still a newborn he loves it plus I get to clean and organize while he’s away it’s a win win! Just do things when your ready!
Also, no your not wrong for not wanting that. Some people just need more time before allowing sleep overs at grandparents or they just don’t allow sleep overs and that’s fine and understandable too
I don’t mean to overstep… but yes. I understand if they’re untrustworthy then no but yeah… it’s healthy as well. I think it should be the same rule for your parents and in-laws ^ that’s not fair because one birthed you and not the other when the baby if also your in laws grandchild. However, I love and trust my entire family on both sides. You’re not wrong but there could be lenience. I understand both viewpoints
Nope! You’re not uptight. I haven’t allowed my son to sleep over anywhere else. If you’re not
Comfortable with it, don’t allow. There’s a reason you’re uncomfortable about it, so go with your own feeling and intuition. No one should be pressuring you about it either. You are allowed Boundaries. She sounds overbearing which would make me uncomfortable in itself.
Me and my husband decided that until they are able to communicate in full sentences they aren’t allowed at anyone house for sleep overs. No you’re not being to uptight, always follow your gut! 🙂
No sleepovers for us.
You’re not being uptight but yes we allow our baby to stay at grandparents house (my parents and in laws) x
Thank you ladies 💕 maybe I need more time to trust them to take care of him right. A few weeks ago on different occasions my father in law gave my baby a whole grape to eat and my mother in law gave my baby a a bunch of whole almonds with yogurt..things like that give me anxiety and makes me feel like they are not ready.
I wont be allowing my newborn anywhere that isn’t with me/with someone i completely trust unless they can communicate because if someone hits my baby or something he can’t tell me that if he cant speak ..not wrong at alllll, i also dont think i’ll allow him at my in laws but mostly because i dont have a relationship with MIL and she barely knows me sooo
Both my kids have been away from me at either my families side or dads side. With my family they will stay a few days with my granny. She lives with my mom and uncle with his kids so they have a lot of help. I think it’s good for them. Lol and for me
@Cindy right my daughter is 9 so if she’s with him she’ll spill the beans about what happen with my 1 year old son.
Not at all I don’t plan to leave my little one with anyone for a very long time if ever
My eldest used to sleep at my parents house a lot when he was younger, infact he still does now. My 20 month old is a horrendous sleeper so he never has had a sleep over. 😭
I wouldn’t let them sleep at my in-laws purely because they are not close to my kids, they’ve never asked for them to stay xx
Yes because i work late.
I let her when she was two months old with my first born and my son was 1 and half when he did for the first time
No your not uptight at all. My daughter is 13 months as she has never slept anywhere without me and won’t be until she is much older. The only other place she has slept is my mums for a couple of nights with me when my mum was getting married and we stayed at her place. There’s no way I’d be comfortable with letting her go somewhere on her own overnight. We co/sleep breastfeed and contact nap and we have a bedtime routine so it’s a firm no from us. You stand your ground, it’s your baby!
No you are not being uptight in the slightest it's completely normal to not want to be away for your child 🤷♀️ my son won't be staying anywhere until he's at least 2 or 3 and even then he will only stay with my parents!
Also why the insistence on sleeping with your son just unnecessary 🙃
No go with your gut I got SA by my brother when I was 4 and he was 13. No one is sleeping with my babies but me or my mom. There were people there and everything. But if you really trust her maybe let her come and sleep in your daughters room? Plus she is pretty young.
I haven’t let my son sleep over at my in laws either. He is 19m and my mil keeps asking, she says it would be good for him to do before my newborn is here but but both my husband would be more worried with him not with us over night. My mil watches my son three days a week so he does sleep at her house but never over night, I think kids need to be much older for that regardless of who is watching them. But I also have a past of being sexually abused as a child so I am more cautious than some moms I know
For some reason I won’t be allowing that with my child just because I’m not 💯 sure how my partner’s mother feels about me yet. Well I’m still pregnant and hoping maybe things might change before my little Angel comes🥹👶🏽.
Personally, I started letting my daughter sleep over with both sets of grandparents from around two months old. But the baby we're talking about here is YOUR baby, not mine or anyone else's. If you're not comfortable with YOUR baby sleeping over anywhere yet, then your MIL is just gonna have to deal with that.
i once read this thing that said i don’t want to leave my kids anywhere alone until they can speak for themselves and tell me if anything happened/ if anyone did anything to them , and i found that interesting because it makes a lot of sense and i agree with it , because even if you’re leaving him or her with family family tends to over step rules you make for your child especially if you’re a first time mom and you’re younger they think you’re inexperienced etc and some might over step , wouldn’t it be wonderful that your kid could tell you that they did?? instead of looking stupid thinking you’re rules are being respected, it’s your child at the end of the day so personally no sleepovers for me , where i go my baby goes .
I don't envision me having my bub sleep away from me til at least 2 years old and even then, unlikely lol
@Krysta that’s exactly what i was thinking as well
My son is almost 2.5 yrs and he has not slept away from me, ever.
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