Advice on bullying please help

Any mums kids been hit by other kids at nursery I have made them aware how else do I handle this? He says she’s pushing him pulling his hair and has bit him he did have mark on arm. They said they never seen it and they do not play together. He’s been saying same for few weeks now I asked if he plays with her “no mummy she pushes me” then yesterday I told him I’ve spoken to Nicola his key worker and if she pushes you tell her he then replied “mummy I’m scared of her” I asked why he said “mummy she pulls my hair and bites me” any advice please cause I’m ready go to her door speak with her mother. Can I add I know them personally and I know the father told my hubby he was teaching her how to elbow people in face and headbutt. When Stan was 1 I arranged play date with them and she slapped my son so hard his cheek was red for hours so I stopped all communication. She has also been expelled from 2 nurseries for violent behaviour
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I would escalate with nursrey especially if you seen some mark. I personally don’t believe that the child would made up such story and keep saying the same thing. The fact that nursrey did not once notice anything is very concerning. I understand that at this age is possible that kids would push etc. but that’s why nursrey staff have responsibility to manage that. Also if they in the same group their comment that they not play together is bull***t there are always activities that they would be together. Escalate to nursrey manager and if you don’t see improvements I would consider changing if possible. In a mean time I would work with your little one on teaching him how to stand for himself not by hitting back but by being vocal with making clear he doesn’t like to be push, he got hurt etc and when need to feel confident to escalate to the adult. It won’t be easy and it might take time but hopefully will improve. Sending hugs

Thankyou I’m arranging meeting on Tuesday with head of his room and his key worker. I’ve just turned all noise off and told him out listening ears on and play actions so asked him first what he does nursery and told me and his bff play in puddles and play with sand and play chases and his fave thing about him is he makes him happy lol then talked about teacher told me he’s always getting told walking feet which I know is true then spoke about this wee girl he showed me how she bit him and he does have a scratch back of arm we have no cats and haven’t been to park or anything due to loaded with cold see when we were just talking his eyes were tearing up I’m so effing angry. I do know that she is being moved to separate class but will still be doing outdoor play booking sessions and lunch together. My issue is this child obviously has issues and other kids shouldn’t have to put up with it he says she does it to his friend too I’ve never met her so I now need find out who she is to talk

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