@Chelsea it is really difficult. I also find myself feeling drained & finding it difficult sometimes because I have him 24/7 and don’t get any alone time, but in the same breath I don’t think I could have it any other way. My biggest fear is him missing out because of me and it sounds like you’re going through that too. I know it’s difficult right now but I just keep thinking things will change one day, hopefully therapy will help but I’m sure it can’t be like this forever. All the best & sending love ❤️x
@Talia it’s so hard isn’t it 😓 my little one doesn’t go anywhere either, he’s just with constant so he obviously suffers being away too, I just know if I got to school and said he didn’t want to go I’d instantly turn back and take him home 😭 we are even joined at the hip at home 🙈 we’ve got this! 🥰💪🏻
I struggled so hard to give my nearly 3 year old but bit the bullet and done it I have such bad anxiety now and literally stare at my phone just Incase he’s not happy :( the pressure of hv saying I’m depriving him made me feel like I had to
Feel like I could’ve written this! My little boy is almost 1 but I haven’t put him in nursery yet due to not wanting to be away. I’ve attempted to look & enquire but as soon as it gets round to it I decide not to take him even though financially it’s really hard and I could do with going back to work. he’s never stayed with any family member day or night as I don’t want to be away from him, & doesn’t see his dad. I’m also currently in therapy for anxiety. Don’t really have any tips or advice but I know exactly what you’re going through so here if you ever need to talk ❤️
I haven’t experienced this exactly but I have had anxiety with things baby related. I guess, if you try to do things with you and your baby slowly slowly, you’ll become more comfortable? I wouldn’t jump in at the deep end if you don’t feel comfortable. Take your time.N