Girl I feel your struggle!
I’ve been awake since 4:30 yesterday with my two month old….I’ve tried everything he won’t fall asleep and stay asleep
If you acknowledge/comfort your baby every night at 4am that’s positive reinforcement. They have learned that behavior and you have encouraged it by going to them. They will continue it cause it’s a learnedI behavior. i AM IN NO WAY saying you are wrong…I don’t judge any other parent.:and me personally I go to my child always and hate hearing them cry..just my personal way of parenting. It seems like you are asking for advice so my tips would be start cutting the 4am interactions short. Soft rub on the back..etc. no talking. Eventually they won’t associate walking up in the early morning with mom coming in. Good luck
@Tia no I completely understand, I guess I do kinda incurage it
My girl was good until tonight up at 230 and won't go back to sleep. Ugh