Also why did you go back to work when yoir baby was 3 months can't he work? Does he work? Xx
I would really think long and hard before marrying this guy lovely 💔 I was in a similar situation paid for everything etc engaged but there would be no wedding unless I saved as he just proposed but there was no like right let's get savings etc way more to my story than that. Bur were not together anymore and I feel alot happier already. He's even living in mine until he finds somewhere 🙃 can I ask do you pay for most things like does he help towards bills or anything. Your relationship should be a partnership and you both should be contributing to the wedding. The fact you paid for the wedding. He should be super grateful and make an effort with you emotionally if he can't contribute financially. You deserve you so much better 💗 I think you should talk to him about how he's making you feel and if nothing changes please reach out to your parents yes they are excited for the wedding but if they knew how upset and broken you were maybe they wouldn't be. Hope your OK xxxx
I agree to all above advices, im sorry. Still go abroad, like holiday, go without him as he hasn't contributed, have space/ time. Love yourself. Go with family member who you can be yourself and trust. If ge is like this now, he will be worse, a lot worse later. Marriage doesn't fix things. He is too comfortable and disrespectful. You take too much on. Hugs
Sorry you are going through this so close to your wedding day. His lack of enthusiasm and contribution is disheartening. You're too emotional right now to think clearly. Most here would agree that you should reconsider marrying him. Your parents/family will understand and support you. He's not all in now. Think about how significantly less he'll be later, thus how much more miserable you'll be.
Ummm yes you can call the wedding off. Just cuz your parents are so excited for it, doesn’t mean you can’t call it off. Would they really be so excited knowing your feeling like this? Don’t do something so big like marriage if your not completely comfortable with everything