Overbearing overwhelming MIL
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I can’t personally relate to this myself as my hubby has a healthy relationship with his mother and he has set boundaries in place with his parents. His parents understand and respect that he has his own family myself and our children and know that they are an addition to our family. They know their place, they don’t intervene and have respect for our relationship. Are you able to talk to him about his mother and how she makes you feel? He is the gateway to you being able to get along with her (if that’s even possible)
No. I wouldn’t be having this wonderful baby if I never met him. I choose the love of my husband and the good and bad experiences we have as a couple over any of his relatives that I do like or don’t like.
Yes. I tell everyone the key difference is if he’s a mamas boy though. If he can stand up for you to his mother and keep distance, it’s worth it. If he still wants to suck his mamas milk, it’s not worth it
Eh sometimes yes but I love him. I didn’t meet his mom until the day before our wedding. She lived in MI and us in NM. She’s been a nightmare since that day, actually changing the setup of our reception hall lol 😂 had our first fight that day 🤷🏼♀️ and she’s been trying to change and control things since.