I can’t personally relate to this myself as my hubby has a healthy relationship with his mother and he has set boundaries in place with his parents. His parents understand and respect that he has his own family myself and our children and know that they are an addition to our family. They know their place, they don’t intervene and have respect for our relationship. Are you able to talk to him about his mother and how she makes you feel? He is the gateway to you being able to get along with her (if that’s even possible)
Yes. I tell everyone the key difference is if he’s a mamas boy though. If he can stand up for you to his mother and keep distance, it’s worth it. If he still wants to suck his mamas milk, it’s not worth it