You poor thing. This guy seems like a (excuse my French) and ass! You need to be protected and so does your baby so do right by both of you. Sucks that you have to make this decision but I would encourage you to get out. Go home to your family it will be hard but staying will compromise your ability to care for yourself and your child. You want your child to grow up knowing you will do anything to give them a good life even if that means leaving the made who contributing to making them. A lot of people on here talking about what if he abuses the child but something to think about is him abusing you in front of your child. That teaches them what to expect in their own adult lives. It’s a cycle and it’s up to you to break it. You can do it! Sending you all the strength and healing vibes! Follow mothersunandthecaptian on Instagram for inso..you are not alone! You can do it💕
I’ve been with terrible partners that my family didn’t like, and at the end of the day they were right every time and none of those relationships worked out. Your family has your best interest at heart and wants what’s best for you. I’d plan a trip cross country to visit your family and see if they will let you stay so you don’t have to go back.
It's scary thinking about leaving someone you've been with for a while especially with a baby on the way, but you have to take care of your mental health. Baby can feel everything you're feeling and if you want to stay in an abusive relationship then something you have to consider is what will he be like with your child? Will he also abuse them? And if he does, will you allow it? I would not stay with someone who can potentially abuse my child. This is something you have to think about in regards to the future. You are stronger than how he makes you feel. You aren't doing anything wrong or being lazy while taking it easy during pregnancy, you're literally growing a human. You are allowed to be tired and want to rest. He's trash so do what you normally do with trash and throw it away.
If you can go home, go be with your family, you need all the support you can get right now! Sometimes I just need someone to grab me a bottle of water. You don't have to go through this alone. My bf, I think he forgets im pregnant at times and there is no moment alike! We can't always do for ourselves. There are highs and lows. Educate him on how you feel and what you are going through! If he doesn't level up to be the man you need, make your exit. Your child will understand. You only get one life to live, make it a stress free beautiful one full of love and support! 🙏🏽💞
I left an abusive spouse several years ago. I wasn’t pregnant but I can’t imagine how awful he would have treated me if I was. And if I had had a kid with him, I would have still walked away somehow and raised that kid myself. Heck I took our dog because he was a crap human being. If it feels abusive, you should absolutely leave. Love is not abusive no matter what kind of gaslighting crap he tries to tell you