last week

Am I reading too much into this?

A couple of weeks ago I had a baby shower, my friends arranged everything, I was just told the date nothing else, no location or guest list. After the baby shower when pics had gone online etc a girl I haven’t seen in over 18 months, (but we said we’d catch up soon as in we’ve been saying that for last 6 months), who only really contacted me to fish for gossip on people we both know but she doesn’t see sent me a msg just saying “Your baby shower looked nice.” I said thanks and that it was a lovely surprise, that I hoped she was well. Since then radio silence but it’s got back through other people she’s annoyed she didn’t get invited to the baby shower. Have considered messaging saying, I didn’t sort guest list but then think if she’s going to make digs at me then I don’t owe her an explanation.
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5 days ago

@Sam thank you, this is such a kind response. Xx

last week

There will always be people that end up being disappointed in situations like this… it happens often. You haven’t done anything wrong. I think you should do what you feel like is the best outcome for you. If you think it’s easier on you emotionally to let go of it, you don’t need to say anything. And if you’re feeling like it would be weighing on you, you can say something- but mainly for your own peace of mind. Do what ever is least activating for you 💜

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