@Shy he’s never once laid a hand on me thankfully. But he does have issues with his temper/getting petty when he’s upset. He is more of a self-destructive angry. Like he won’t hurt himself physically but he tells himself things like, “Well I’m a bad person so I deserve bad things to happen to me.” He also was 100% abused as a child/teenager by both his mom and stepdad. He never thought it was abuse because it was his normal. But I basically told him he needed to fix himself so he would be the one to break the cycle. I never worried about it with our son but like I said, once our girls were born it was like he was a different person. I didn’t want to lose him before he was so far gone he couldn’t get help so that’s when I pulled myself and the kids out of the equation until he was better
What prompted the anger management and therapy? Is he abusive to you? If that’s the case, it could all make sense. I hope everything works out in the way that it’s meant to.
I mean it sounds like your doing everything you can do! Maybe try some local mom groups to help build a closer community? But you are one strong women handling three under three!!! If there are any little things that make you happy keep doing them/keeping them around. All you really can do is your best and you are definitely doing that. Just try to stay happy :)
I have an out of sight out of mind type of brain so I honestly get what you’re saying. I’d say just take each day one at a time.
Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming... 🎶