@Shazida yes I'm from an Asian background. I don't think people understand the importance of the mum when it comes to babies. Really winds me up. I'm sorry that you're going through similar. Hope it gets easy for you
@Shazida I’m so happy my family isn’t like that I’m sorry you FIL did that cause that’s ridiculous
I apologise in advance for being stereotypical but are you from an Asian background? Coz I am and even tho my situation is not as bad as yours, I’m experiencing same-ish. For example, my baby was crying earlier. I know he wasn’t hungry, he’s been changed etc. he just wanted to be held by me. My FIL grabbed him and tried to calm him down. My baby wasn’t having it. I asked for him to be given to me. My FIL walked out of the room and took my baby for a walk around the house. He came back 2 minutes later and my baby was still crying. I asked again for my baby and finally my FIL passed him to me. He calmed down within a few seconds. I eventually said “see how he calmed straight away. He just wanted his mum” my FIL didn’t know what to say
You are not being extra those people are just being really rude, it’s like they forgot how it was being a FTM. If they give you a dirty look give them one back that’s your baby momas.
They definitely don’t. It’s ridiculous. Every time I talk about research behind certain things as well he tries to shut me down. Thank you, hope things get better for you too xx