@Rebekah no, to take care of them. I am not looking for someone to take care of me financially. I am thankfully not worried about finances but the guys that have been messaging is usually asking in a backhanded way if I can buy them things or how I feel about a guy moving in. Etc. I would not ask the same of a guy.
What apps are you on?
If they ask you for shit they are scammers so don’t do it! Especially when you don’t know them well enough and I mean anything less than a year.
@EmpressS I only tried bumble but kinda turned off. Any recommendations are welcome but I am kinda scared to go back on apps because it is just kinda sketchy now. I used am app many years ago and it was not this sketchy.
They’re playing with you or are scammers. Be careful, these days you’ll come across more scammers than anything.
@IssaLadyE right? That's what I am thinking. Because the conversations quickly go into what I can do for them, like housing, etc and I cut that off really quick because I am not looking for someone to leech off of me. I'm not rich by any means but I am doing comfortable with what I have to raise my baby.
@Indy yea. I figured as much. It kinda scared me off the app. I want to meet someone but I don't know how I'll do that when I'm mostly surrounded by other moms and work around mostly women. My social time is with my baby tbh
Oh ok. Yeah that’s a red flag.
If you're trying to date have others you know family or friends introduce you to people they know are single. Also a subscription to Whitepages.com to rule out all the crazies or guys with a really long criminal background. Just a friendly suggestion. I was single for a long time. It can get lonely but God's timing is perfect. Trust the right person will come into you're life at the right time.
Yes. I wouldn't even tell them that I am mom unless they are the one..
I would ask about there kids 1st.
Uuugh guy are dumb. I'm so sorry you're going through that 😔
I don’t think it’s too much to ask for a woman to be capable of taking care of herself financially.