@Lucy amount of sex used to be a big deal for us. So bad, we needed therapy because my husband was about to leave me. We learned it wasn’t sex that was the issue but we had different love languages. Therapy really helped us.
@Lorreen I have many times , sometimes he seems to understand then other times he doesn't, I get it as he has needs and all that xx
@Lucy oh definitely don’t do something you genuinely cannot do or are pushing yourself too far. Just express that to him.
@Lorreen I just dont want to do something I don't want too as I been through that in a pass relationship and atm I have pain and problems with my hips and don't want to hurt myself more .
@Lorreen might think about it xx