If you suddenly expect him to do something different. Like.. lower the amount of money that he sends or not sending anything at all, you need to communicate those expectations because from the posts it seems like you just expected him to be more caring and change and with men that is generally not the case.
Hey I’m sorry ur going through this! U should definitely be put first an this is when u need the most emotional support from him. I do want to real with u boo. Just question urself if ur okay with dealing with what is in-front of u. He is showing you his true colors of the type of partner he is. You can never change someone an don’t wait for them to change. U could be waiting a life time to see the change come.
Ohhh boy! I’m sorry you’re facing this. You need to come first. Always. This baby , if you are going to continue with this pregnancy needs to come first. If he can’t do that, if he can’t show you his behavior is changing… you have some decisions to make.
Maybe ask him to have a chat about finances now that you are expecting. It’s an important chat so schedule it so you two will come prepared to have the conversation. State your needs, but also ask questions to understand his point of view. Strong relationships are about communication and compromises. Best of luck to you!!