D on Peanut: Partners

D · 2023-03-19T17:16Z

Got into an argument with my partner today. He told me he feels overwhelmed and that he is the only one doing the housework. I admit that yes, I am pretty messy and haven't been helping with the housework but I do still work 52 hours a week and do 3 sleep nights. (I'm a support worker and work 7 days a week, some shifts shorter than others) I'm currently 28+3 days. I feel exhausted. He says he gets I'm pregnant and working but I should be helping him more. (He doesn't work) He was getting stressed and kept complaining about everything. I kept reassuring him and saying okay I will help out a bit more but he hust kept going on about how I just say that and don't act. I lost my temper a bit and told him to calm the fuck down. Now he told me he isn't going to talk to me until I apologise. I just feel like I'm doing so much and him tidying the house/keeping on top of the housework isn't too much to ask. Am I over-reacting?