Just give it time honey. You're in the thick of it. I can barely remember anything from the first month its all a hormonal sleep deprivation mess. You're not getting any sleep, you're in pain. It is going to get easier I promise. I was crying everyday for a solid 5 weeks over everything. You just had major surgery it's ok for hubby to take a lead for now on feeds. You need to heal. I felt like a terrible mum too coz my husband did way more than me the first 3-4 weeks. Now 7mo in she's a total mummies girl 😅 Your doing amazing. Just be kind to each other and you will be ok xx
You are 2 weeks postpartum! Honestly give each other a break, this is the worse period after birth with the hormones. Why give it all up when you have a baby to think about 🙈 x
I have to say I agree with the above.. went through something similar but once you are feeling better and are settled as parents you will naturally make more of an effort with one another.