Am I a bitch??

Hiya, so it’s my first Mother’s Day today and my partner obviously knew it was gonna be Mother’s Day for ages as we been discussing what to get our mothers. Never once did I hint at anything I wanted but obviously I would like a bit of effort put into it as it’s my first Mother’s Day and previously for Valentine’s we done nothing i just got a card.. I’m not ungrateful but like I just feel like he puts no effort into anything.. like for Father’s Day I got him from our son a personalised card, personalised football shirt and a wallet that he wanted. (It’s not a competition but I put thought into the day and what he likes) So I thought he might put some effort into today as it’s a special day.. nope I got a card from Sainsbury’s and a teddy bear. Don’t get me wrong I’m completely grateful for what I have and what I got I love the simple things I don’t expect neither want anything expensive I just wanted to feel appreciated maybe a personalised card and a balloon maybe some flowers and a cup of tea/ lay in bed for a couple hours longer then usual just a little relaxing time However that didn’t happen. I’m not one to ever be ungrateful but there was just no thought into today like it was a last minute card and teddy with no thought put into it at all. It’s upset me a bit even if he was just to get me a personalised card from moon pig I would of felt some sort of effort however when I received what he got me I was happy never the less but it just stung a little. We then went and spent the day with his mum which was lovely going round their house for a roast but I sort of wanted to do something as a little family even just a walk in the park or a movie day.. am I a bitch am I asking for too much? He asked me if I enjoyed today and I said yeh it was nice but I wish he could of put a little thought into my Mother’s Day card or doing something together like the movie day and he completely made me feel like I’m am ungrateful by saying he hasn’t got the money and I should just be happy with a card but that’s not the point I’m just upset he didn’t make it a little bit more personal and he’s had ages to be able to put a bit of money to the side for a bunch of flowers as well or a personalised card idk and maybe just a little bit of relaxing time idk I know this probably sounds so stupid