“Spoiling baby”
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Thank you ladies. This has made me feel so much better!❤️
There’s loads online but this nhs Scotland page and unicef pamphlet is quite good ( I googled them now for you 😆). https://www.nhsinform.scot/ready-steady-baby/early-parenthood/getting-to-know-your-baby/developing-a-relationship-with-your-baby https://www.unicef.org.uk/babyfriendly/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2018/04/happybaby_leaflet_web.pdf
My little girl is the same . Won’t go to anyone other than me or her dad . We won’t leave her with anyone else as she gets so upset x
Totally agree with the other ladies! Just ignore. I’m sure your gran thinks that she means well when she says that but that mindset and advice is very of that generation. Loads of research has been done since then that shows you cannot spoil a baby with love, care and affection. Research also shows that a baby/child who is supported and given attention when they cry etc grow up to be confident and also this care will help them to self regulate better as an adult. You are an incredible mother and absolutely doing the right thing. Arm yourself with the right info and share this new and healthier way of thinking with your gran. Your gran may not agree but hopefully she will respect your choices, for your child x
I mean it’s disgusting that you are showing your child love and affect in a way that is suited to him 😉